This is unarguable...same and same is not equivilent to same and opposite. You cannot be a male role model to a child as a female , you cannot be a female role model to a child as a male. You cannot produce your own children without manipulating the process as same and same. Any child could play the game as a 3 year old , what fits into what , and understand nature's intention for sex. What is missed is that 90% of sex lies in between the ears and there are no neat , clean , definitive answers for deviation. Redefining an institution that is the basic building block of a stable society based solely on SEXUAL DESIRES is a never ending Pandora's box. So let's unstop our ears , open our collective eyes and think a bit harder about this issue.