I am a husband and a dad who lives with his family--a minority. Our family is not perfect; in fact we struggle, but we see ourselves as a team where membership is not optional, and the reason for our efforts is to honor Jesus as Lord.
Once per week, we have SSN night--Say Something Nice. We each take a turn to make a positive statement about each member of our family, since the rest of the week can be filled with critique from all sources. I physically take my kids to voting stations instead of simply mailing in my ballot. I work hard at a private school with high virtue and moral standards, where hundreds of transformed graduates (hopefully my own kids someday) excel in academics and civics. Small steps can make important differences!