Part of the logic the terrorists used on 9/11 was that America had grown spoiled and weak from years of being well protected from outside attacks. That of course would be true for all our brothers on the left. Those on the right know evil exists and that our freedom will forever be a precarious thing. Those planes temporarily brought us close to our well meaning yet naive brothers, but they soon afterward returned to their comfort zone which is placating real evil and attacking family.
Suicide has and always will be an unfortunate aspect of war.
Life isn't always fun and games or dinner and a movie.
War at times is necessary, and by living in what is considered the greatest nation in the world, we at times must leave our comfort zone.