Ya'll carry on like raising a child is a chore tantamount to being a slave. Having sex has consequences that are emotional and physical. The abortion issue is really about federal funding for an industry that made contributions to put it's man in the whitehouse. That's it. Don't try to intellectualize it, overcomplicate it in an effort to hide the truth of the matter. Magicians call it misdirection to make it harder for the audience to figure out the trick.