rmturn- I could not have stated that case better myself.
XJNYC- It's not about caring what your neighbor does. There is a reason God created a man and a woman, to procreate and and to be a help meet for each other. If you do not believe in God then I am sorry about that. A man and woman marriage has sustained our world for many, many years. That God ordained relationship is morally and ethicalyl based and our society depends on that. When you have no boundaries for society, you have lawlessness. Some boundaries have to be maintained. I am not homophobic or hate gays, I just believe in moral boundaries.