I see the problem with you life in one little sentence the "Your Jesus". God does NOT help those that aren't His. It is NOT a psychology. It is a reality. It isn't a club. It's Gods family. You WILL see a life changing experience when He becomes "Your Jesus". The problem has NEVER been with God but with man. If you problems persist it is because you aren't excepting His word as truth. It is easy. Gods burden is light. God has nothing but love for us. If sex is your life then you have a serious problem. There is a narrow path that leads to Him. It is us that stray away from it and fall into a ditch.