Actually, it's your job to see that your kid behaves in school, not mine. There is a law that tells me that if a student is infringing on the educational opportunities of another student due to misbehavior, I can remove the misbehaving student. That's when I call you, his daddy, and tell you he better get it together. You then are supposed to make sure he does, not for me, or you, but for him. Or do you disagree?
Also, what values have I ceased to repect or asked anyone to adopt? Name them, please.