You missed my main point, so I will eludidate. The point is that feminism, for all its claims to give women more choices, actually robbed them of some of those choices by having them believe that traditional choices were not worthwhile. Far more important, it irreversibly changed the roles between men and women, taking the romance and respect out of dating and telling men they should be more like women. Sex became far more casual and far less special. I'm not saying feminism was all bad; but my own experience was one of pain, sorrow, and confusion that took many years to rectify. Since I generally blame myself for almost all unfavorable outcomes, this is a rare circumstance in which I place at least a portion of the blame on feminism.