Demasculation of America's Boys

i laughed out loud reading this, i agree so whole-heartedly. what's sad is that i bought into it for so long. i married a very effeminate, introverted man and got frustrated in the end when he would not stop playing video games, and would not 'man up.' i was accosted ina bar once by a very intoxicated young man, and all my husband would do was tell the bartender that there was a problem. SHE told the guy to shove off. which i really think MY MAN should have done. in the end, we got divorced, he having decided that he did not like the responsibility of having a wife and home to take care of. i had spent years thinking that if a guy was 'too masculin' he's be abusive and controlling. i looked for guys who thought it was just wrong of me...