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Same sex attractions are not a choice - but they are not innate either. They are made - very early in childhood through inappropriate, absent, or twisted relationships - usally with the same sex parent. But homosexuals do not "choose" same sex attractions. However, homosexual behavior and the next step, a "gay" identity are choices. You can choose not to engage in the behavior or adapt the identity (although without Christ, there is little motivation to make that choice). It is very difficult (though not impossible) to change your same-sex attractions as that is the result of psycological brokenness. Exodus International is a ministry specializing in helping people understand homosexuality and to live with unwanted same sex attraction
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