1) Starting in the sixties there was an explosion of children born out-of-wedlock and kids who don't grow up in two parent families fare more poorly percentage wise on just about any and every scale imaginable including substance abuse, teenage pregnancies, suicide rates, criminality and homelessness.
2) Many people are becoming so childlike in their dependence on the government that they can't save for their own retirement, escape from an oncoming hurricane, or even purchase their own birth control without the government handling it for them.
3) Our legal system encourages frivolous lawsuits, is punitively expensive...












While I have no doubt most, that played the fool, love the child that 'just seemed to show up', life is more difficult for many or them and the child is reared in dependency upon money confiscated from strangers. And against their will, as they have their own kids to provide for.
The child learns dependency, and is taught it is their 'right'.
Child abuse, actually.
An empowered woman decides not to be put into dependency like Obama's 'Julia', who is a slave.