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Do gays ever think about anything else but gayness, and who is “with" them, and who is “against” them? Do they realize that the straight world doesn’t spend much time thinking about them, but people have problems of their own?
Try dealing with an autistic child, a husband with a very rare autoimmune disorder, medical and financial problems of your own -- and an elderly mother who throws temper tantrums because you aren’t spending enough time with her. Walk in my shoes before you judge.
Sometimes there are reasons why the old lady is alone. She may be pleasant enough to the bank teller -- for a short period of time -- but she has been so awful to her immediate family, that they avoid her as much as possible. It could be exacerbated because of dementia, but when the old gal has insulted everybody in the family over the years, nobody really cares what the reason is. Old ladies can be completely self-absorbed, and do not care what problems their adult children are coping with (or other people waiting in line at the bank).
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