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Stigma and Civilization

AZYaateeh Wrote: Oct 11, 2012 8:33 PM
You assume. The research is inconclusive. And however much they wuv their wittle boyfwiends, a gay relationship benefits nobody but themselves—so why should anyone endorse it? The community has a stake in marriages because it has an interest in perpetuating itself. Marriage is not there to say "your feelings are a good thing", it's there to say "you have undertaken an obligation by mating, and we mean to see you keep it".

This week I gave a talk at Morgan State University on gay marriage.

At the end of our panel, Kieffer Mitchell, a Maryland state legislator who voted for gay marriage, said he was grateful for the civility of the panel, that he knew good people who were on both sides of the issue, even people in his own family.

That's one America. That's the America both he and I want to live in.

But after the debate was over, an audience member was not satisfied with that ending. She stood up and pronounced an anathema on me.

A gay reporter who identified the woman as...

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