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Why Every Responsible American Should Turn Their Daughter into a Man

Arkay66 Wrote: Jan 28, 2013 12:24 PM
What I'm reading here is Ms. Hughes wants her daughters to be helpless princesses, rather than strong, capable of doing for herself women. Pity. I grew up on a farm and, like Elisabeth26, could ride a horse, shoot guns, drive anything, become a serious musician and artist, wear dresses and have tea parties. Nothing was closed to me, if I wanted to do it. Wound up serving in the Army, as an officer, then later as a civilian, for over 33 years. I did not have to turn myself into a mini man. Got shot at, got banged up, lost subordinates and peers to enemy action, and still retired as a well-adjusted woman who can do anything I need to do/want to do. Would that your daughters learn to be as strong and independent. (Next)
ColdWolverine Wrote: Jan 28, 2013 9:06 PM
Arkay, I'm not sure what you're reading, because I never saw anything about helpless princesses in the column. I do see that you don't think SH is raising her daughter correctly. My mother was raised as a lady, ran our home like an executive runs a business, and raised a family of strong, loving, intelligent men and women. As far as I know she never fired a rifle, but I don't think she would have appreciated your pity.

However, I do thank you for serving.
talltexanoilfieldtrash Wrote: Jan 28, 2013 12:36 PM
Arkay, so, you went to OCS and came out as a know-it-all Looie? You never had to be in the trenches with the 'grunts"? There, you would have been exposed to the treatment that privates and other low life grunts have to endure from the "shavetails". You do not impress me. If you started out as a private, and worked your way up, then I might think your opinion counted.
Neal from PA Wrote: Jan 28, 2013 1:06 PM


I agree with you TallTex…having been a combat vet in the Nam…I having that protective instinct regarding the female of our species…I would not want women in direct combat roles…for that would cause undue pressures…other than just watching one’s back and mine theirs. Just the possibility of a female being captured by the enemy is not very appealing; when the idea of capture by the enemy for anyone isn’t desirable, it becomes 100x more undesirable for women.

Having said that…I am sure that, if require to do so, some women are very capable and if needed I am sure many would volunteer for combat; but why should they when they do not have too? Just to be politically correct…has never and will never, win wars.

Arkay66 Wrote: Jan 28, 2013 12:32 PM
I'm also reading an amazing amount of over emotion and outright ignorance over women in combat. We've been in combat for years. The mere fact that women have not served directly in the Infantry has little to do with that fact. In 1978, I was the intelligence officer for a mechanized infantry brigade, and not the only woman in combat brigades across the Army. Preventing women from serving in combat brigade level positions was prohibited later. Going back to that is not the same as becoming Infantry officers or soldiers.

Yes, women should be subject to the draft, just as men are. Did all men automatically go into combat arms when drafted? No -- so just get a flippin' grip, people.
talltexanoilfieldtrash Wrote: Jan 28, 2013 12:43 PM
Get a grip? Your attitude would have got you 'fragged' by most 'Nam vets I know. A 'behind-the-lines'Intellegence officer? Wow! Where is my grenade and some string or wire? Somebody needs an attitude adjustment. LOL!
lsemler Wrote: Jan 28, 2013 12:47 PM
It is natural that you would defend your life's mission and work by coming against the premise of this article. First of all let us admit that our culture and society is broken, dysfunctional families,dysfunctional people, dysfunctional nation. Some bright people have caught on to the fact that there is a direct corelation between the liberation of the female from her tradional role as mother and housewife to Power walker, talker, mover and shaker. Oh Gee...hasn't it been fun? Domestic violence has skyrocketed, fatherless children abound, women and poverty is a disastrous condition...
Now listen to me...I spent 20 years chasng the liberated lie. I was the first woman in an all male profession.
talltexanoilfieldtrash Wrote: Jan 28, 2013 12:56 PM
isemler, we have a bunch of women in the oil field now. Are they out there in the blazing sun and the freezing cold carrying around 40 pound wrenches and making and breaking drill pipe joints? Nope! most of them are engineer types that get all unbalanced if men act like men when they are around. I mean, when females are not around, most oilfield types stay sane with crude jokes and smutty language. They revert to civilized creatures when they go back home. It used to be that way in the military.
lsemler Wrote: Jan 28, 2013 12:56 PM
I learned to cuss, drink, play poker with the guys, and do everything the men did. I made as much money as they did and lived a pretty free lifestyle. I had retired military men work under me, who took orders from me. Then one day, it all crashed and I turned to God. He began to show me what being a woman really means. For the last twenty five years, I've been learning. I am so much kinder, compassionate, nuturing and feel the dignity and honor afforded me as a woman. I've been on both sides of ths fence and will tell you being in my natural role as God intended, a true Proverbs 31 woman is far superior to the so called liberated role I first adopted in my life.
gandreasen Wrote: Jan 29, 2013 10:00 AM
Oh BS.
I've never been in the military, but as a steel mill worker I can out carry, out fight, and out survive you. No women work in the mills as second helpers. None. They are crane operators or chem lab operators or whatever is safe. Come on down to the real world, you will see the difference.
You are lying to yourself.

Raising a daughter is tricky enough.  Last week, the job of all American parents became much more complicated.  Not only do parents of daughters have to worry about dates to the dance, mean girls on the playground, or making sure their daughters have good academic discipline but now parents also have to worry about the idea that if there ever is a national draft again, their daughter might just have the opportunity to sit in a foxhole, wet, cold and muddy, gripping the steel of an M-4 in her chapped hands, waiting to kill or be killed. 

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