No Slam-Dunk For the Mommy Wars

No kidding. It took me a long time to learn not to judge those women who do work outside the home when they have kids because not all of them fit that feminista mold; most of them are just doing what they have to do. Even my closest female friend of 30+ years wishes she'd have spent less time at the office and more time with her kids, and when hers were small I recall her telling me that being home with them would have driven her crazy-which used to make me feel she was implying that women like me who were home with our kids had something wrong with us. Of course there was not and is not but that's how deeply the feminista culture has affected the females of my generation. I don't regret for one moment being home with our kids even...