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Al, Tipper and the Myth of a 'Good Divorce'

AliveInHim Wrote: Jun 23, 2010 11:59 PM
Vampire: Then you've never listened to Paul Harvey, or read the obits of your community's old folks. Mr Harvey featured at least one couple in his daily newscast who celebrated anniversaries well past the 50 year mark. That means they'd have married when young, to be sure, but the point is longterm marriages are not as uncommon as thought, nor necessarily as tired, lacking in imagination, or love as you claim. Heck, we've folks in our church who've been married for 60 years and more. My own mother in law was married, between two husbands (first one deceased), for nearly sixty years herself. My grandparents, 45 years (second for her, third for him-and he lived to 98). DH and I, 31 years (in spite of my being an adult child of divorce....

The separation of Al and Tipper Gore after forty years as husband and wife produced a flood of commentary concerning what’s purportedly impossible, and possible, in modern marriage.

According to rapidly calcifying conventional wisdom, the Gore breakup shows that it’s impossible to uphold the old ideal of “till death do us part,” and indicates that even the best-matched couples can’t reasonably expect that their love can last a lifetime.

Meanwhile, admiring pundits note that the Gores have handled their situation with dignity and discretion, demonstrating the real possibility of a “good divorce.”

Actually, both conclusions contradict reality for most Americans. The...

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