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Kids as "young adults"

Alex460 Wrote: Dec 01, 2009 12:23 PM
I'm twenty-one and my parents still refer to me as a kid, and I'm just fine with that as it took me until very recently to start seeing myself as an adult. I was also a very naive child in that it took me a few years after the fact to realize that the very popular Tamora Pierce books were a lot more sexualized than I had realized at 12. (The main character in one of the books does not have a single romantic relationship that does not include sleeping with the man from the start.)

The Catholic faith also has a means of entering adulthood at about 13 or so (depends on the diocese). The Sacrament of Confirmation is when we choose whether or not to accept our faith as full adults. What's significant is that you have to have an adult...

Just who is a "young adult"?

Common sense says it starts with legal adulthood at age 18. But elements of our society have unofficially declared that the onset of adulthood matches the onset of puberty at the very grown-up age of 12. Which is one of the reasons why parents often seem uncertain about how to parent during the critical teen years.

I've come to believe that the term was designed to diminish parental influence during the years when our growing children need the most direction. It's a subtle way of telling us that we should relinquish our...

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