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Kids as "young adults"

2ManyHorses Wrote: Dec 01, 2009 11:37 AM
My husband and I prefer the term "adult in training" when it comes to our kids. Ultimately, the parents job is to train a responsible adult beginning from infancy. Childhood is brief, and too many parents try to hold onto it. Fact is, the kiddo is going to fly the coop around the age of 18 whether s/he is ready or not... so s/he better be ready!

Sexualizing children is a different subject all together. I think the author is confusing the label "young adult" with sexual exposure that is occurring at younger and younger ages. Sex is not synonymous with maturity. Sexual knowledge does not make one wiser or more mature or more independent. This is the fallacy of secular society. In my observation, children these days are...

Just who is a "young adult"?

Common sense says it starts with legal adulthood at age 18. But elements of our society have unofficially declared that the onset of adulthood matches the onset of puberty at the very grown-up age of 12. Which is one of the reasons why parents often seem uncertain about how to parent during the critical teen years.

I've come to believe that the term was designed to diminish parental influence during the years when our growing children need the most direction. It's a subtle way of telling us that we should relinquish our...

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