File photo of Iraq war widow McIlvaine visiting husband's grave in Section 60 at Arlington National Cemetery in Virginia

 
File photo of Iraq war widow McIlvaine visiting husband
Iraq war widow Sheryl McIlvaine visits the grave of her husband, U.S. Marine Sgt. James R. McIlvaine, in Section 60 at Arlington National Cemetery in Virginia, in this October 19, 2009 file photo. REUTERS/Larry Downing/Files