The wisdom in this biblical admonishment is so self-evident that it is universally admired - but tragically, rarely followed. It is the basic tenant for successful human relationships, the economy, personal finances, you name it. Imagine the good that could accomplished, the human suffering that would be replaced with human achievement, if we treated others with the dignity and thoughtfulness we ourseleves crave.
The two greatest gifts we can give our children are to teach them to love God with all that is within them, and to love their neighbors as they love themselves.
Here are five easy ways to start:
- Invest time in your kids, rather than being obsessed with your own career, hobbies or whims.If your kids see that you are not concerned about them enough to sacrifice your own desires and pour into their lives, how will they ever learn to pour into others?
- Be a role model. Considerate, well-mannered, thoughtful children come from parents who exude those behaviors themselves.
- Share stories of kindness. Start seeking media that teach what is highest and best, that glorify human decency instead of depravity.
- Be generous. You may not be rich, but everyone can be generous with their time and talents. There's nothing more selfless than giving to someone who can't possibly ever repay you.
- Practice 'Random Acts of Kindness". Think of something nice to do for someone else - and then do it. Consistently.
Narcissism eventually leads from self-love to self-loathing. But living the Golden Rule is a powerful way to spread joy, improve the human condition, and develop true self-respect.