The feminist revolution that swept the United States in the 1970s promoted the dream of a land in which at least half of all corporate officers, Fortune 500 CEOs, partners in law firms and doctors would be women.
But a funny thing happened on the way to achieving that promise. Feminism was mugged by the reality that most women don't seek those goals.
How the best and the brightest are rejecting the career track laid out for them by the feminists is detailed in an article titled "The Opt-Out Revolution" by Lisa Belkin in the New York Times Magazine. That is the same persistently feminist publication that a few years ago featured a cover glamorizing feminism's No. 1 role model, St. Hillary Clinton, in radiant white robes.
Belkin interviewed hundreds of women and presented as typical a group in Atlanta, all of whom had graduated from Princeton more or less 20 years ago, earned advanced degrees in law or business from other prestigious institutions such as Harvard and Columbia, and waited until they were thirtysomethings to marry and have children because their careers were so exciting.
Eager graduates during the heyday of feminism, they felt both entitled and obligated to make good. As one said, what she then wanted was to be "a confirmed single person, childless, a world traveler."
These Atlanta women are typical: For the last couple of decades, roughly half of the U.S. graduates with masters in business, law degrees or medical degrees have been women. In the feminist game plan, these are the very women who should now be at the top of the business and professional world, wielding the fantasy power attributed to the tiny percentage at the top.
But of the 10 Princeton graduates interviewed by Belkin at a book-club meeting, five were not employed outside the home, one is in business with her husband, one is employed part time, two freelance, and the only one with a full-time job is childless. Nationwide, only 16 percent of corporate officers are women and only eight Fortune 500 companies have female CEOs. In fact, only 38 percent of the women who graduated from the Harvard Business School in the 1980s are working full time.
Feminist ideology for years has preached that if women fail to cross those thresholds of power, it is because women are held down by a "glass ceiling" imposed by a discriminatory and oppressive male-dominated society. But these smart, talented, successful women told Belkin that they voluntarily opted out of their accelerating careers.
The work days kept getting longer and longer, and the women walked away from six-figure incomes. Typical comments were: "I don't want to be on the fast track leading to a partnership at a prestigious law firm." "I don't want to conquer the world; I don't want that kind of life."
One easily predictable explanation for this attitude is, in one Belkin quote, that many women never get near the glass ceiling because "they are stopped long before by the maternal wall."
These women don't admit that they abandoned the work force because their children needed them. They said they opted out because "life got in the way"; they were "no longer willing to work as hard, commuting, navigating office politics," and "balancing all that with the needs of a family."
One woman told Belkin that she is just not interested "in forging ahead and climbing a power structure," and "that is one of the inherent differences between the sexes." She quickly caught herself after making such a politically incorrect statement, adding, "to turn that into dogma is dangerous and false."
One woman from the Atlanta group staunchly maintained that "the exodus of professional women from the workplace isn't really about motherhood; it's really about work. ... Quitting is driven as much from the job-dissatisfaction side as from the pull-to-motherhood side."
Princeton University, a former male citadel, is now run largely by women, and Belkin interviewed the president, Shirley Tilghman. Commenting on her current crop of female students, she said that for every one "who looks at an Amy (Gutmann, the provost) or an Ann-Marie (Slaughter, dean of the Woodrow Wilson School of Public and International Affairs) and says, 'I want to be like her,' there are three who say, 'I want to be anything but her.'"
The feminist movement was always elitist; it was about getting political and corporate power for educated women.
But it turns out that the workplace, like child care, has its drudgery, its long hours, its repetitious duties, its demands that an employee accommodate herself to the schedule of others. Maybe the home is a pleasanter and more fulfilling work environment than the office, after all.
I wonder if someday a feminist will ever say the office is "a comfortable concentration camp," as author Betty Friedan famously described the home of an affluent suburban housewife in her landmark 1963 work, "The Feminine Mystique." Or if a feminist will ever admit that there is an eternal difference between men and women in their goals and in how they want to live their lives.
Phyllis Schlafly is a national leader of the pro-family movement, a nationally syndicated columnist and author of Feminist Fantasies.
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