The Personal is the Political

Here's the good news: Every campaign seems to have somebody cast in a supporting role who proceeds to steal the show. Not through glitz and glamour, but the lack of same. In the spotlight's glow, it's not easy to hold on to that equivocal thing called the self. When you see it done, it brings the whole show back to earth.

I'm talking, of course, about Michelle Obama, another proof that American men, even the most ballyhooed of presidential candidates like Barack Obama, tend to marry above themselves. Sen. Obama clearly did. Consider:

When her hot-shot husband became an Illinois state senator and started spending much of his time in Springfield, Mrs. Obama told him off: "I never thought I'd have to raise a family alone."

She sounded like any other wife, mother and real person who has to hold down a responsible job, look after the kids, and educate the male of the species, too. Mrs. Obama told her husband last fall that it was "now or never" for his presidential hopes because she wasn't about to put their two little girls, 6 and 9, "through this again."

Asked what her platform as potential First Lady would be, Mrs. Obama told the questioner: "To make sure my kids have their heads on straight." First things first. None of this co-president business.

A product of Chicago's all-too-real South Side (Go White Sox!), she's never lost touch with reality, despite her degrees from Princeton and Harvard Law. She seems to have her head on straight herself. Imagine: There are still sensible adults out there - even in politics.