Larry Craig and all that: A mirror of our confusions

Perhaps the most shameful aspect of the whole story is the legion of politicians, commentators and just plain snickering yahoos of every persuasion to whom the sad story of Larry Craig proves Š exactly what they believed before he became front-page news. Namely, that he exemplifies (a) right-wing hypocrisy, or (b) the evils of homosexuality. Choose up sides and let's fight. The facts in this case may not be clear but that doesn't keep a lot of us from passing all-too-clear judgments.

In all the hubbub, the basic values that have often guided Americans through changing cultural times tend to disappear. Basic values like tolerance, fairness and simple decency. All need to be upheld, but how balance them?

Political and ideological passions tend to push aside reason and experience at such times - whether the subject is the nature of family, the distinction between private conduct and public propriety, or the relation between law and morality.

The mess we make when we adopt arbitrary attitudes toward such questions is illustrated here in Arkansas by a proposed initiated act that its sponsors are trying to get on the ballot next year. It would prohibit "Unmarried, Cohabiting Sexual Partners, Both Same Sex and Opposite-Sex" from adopting children or serving as foster parents. No exceptions.

It's hard to imagine such a law being proposed if homosexuality were not such a bugaboo in our society-as hard to imagine as a U.S. senator's resigning in disgrace because he'd pled guilty to simple disorderly conduct.

Do we really want to prohibit unmarried couples, whatever their sexual orientation, from adopting a child who needs a good home, or from serving as foster parents? Doesn't it all depend on the individuals involved, and the needs of the individual child? Not to mention the particular circumstances in each case.

But reasoned judgment, subtle distinctions, a concern for the facts of the matter, a sense of restraint Š they all seem to go out the window when the subject is homosexuality. And snap judgments abound. One might as well make snap judgments about the strange, sad and not very clear case of Larry Craig.