Fourth, those at Annapolis need to know that Islamic radicals such as bin Laden, the theofascist regime in Tehran and terror kingpins such as Nasrallah and Haniyeh count on an illiterate and impoverished citizenry who can be incited to frenzy or suicidal terror by defaming Jews or Americans. The palliative for this misery-driven fury is education -- real education -- not the indoctrination of a madrassa. Teaching young Muslims math, science, medicine, accounting and law will give them tools to live better instead of reasons to die the "right way," by killing an "infidel."
Finally, and perhaps most importantly, the conference participants must offer Muslim women real rights -- and soon. In far too many places in the Islamic world, half the population is denied even the basics of human liberty. Radical Islamic courts treat girls as young as 9 as adults, subject women to death by stoning for adultery and permit female genital mutilation.
Countries and regions ruled by radical Islamists don't permit women to travel unless escorted by a male relative, limit the availability of medical care and forbid access to higher education. In far too many places, women are not allowed to have their own bank accounts, use a cell phone, participate in political debate or to vote.
Just before the December 2005 election in Iraq, Mamun Rashid, governor of Anbar province told me, "This election will change everything because women are going to vote."
When I asked him why that would change things in Iraq, he replied, "Because women don't vote to have their sons become suicide bombers." Nearly half the ballots in the 2005 election were cast by women.
The American troops I'm heading off to cover for FOX News understand this. They realize the reduced violence in Iraq today can be attributed to much more than simply a "surge" in U.S. forces.
If a broader peace process is to work in the Middle East, then the Annapolis conference participants need to be convinced that granting women the right to vote is essential. The best antidote for radical Islamic terror is a woman's purple finger.
Oliver North is a nationally syndicated columnist, the host of War Stories on the Fox News Channel, the author of the new novel Heroes Proved and the co-founder of Freedom Alliance, an organization that provides college scholarships to the children of U.S. military personnel killed or permanently disabled in the line of duty. Join Oliver North in Israel by going to www.olivernorthisrael.com.