Matt Towery

Less obvious was the redemption of Lester Maddox. In an interview for this column just a year and a half ago, Maddox said he didn't have a "racist bone in my body." He also said that if his actions had hurt anyone's feelings, it was unintended and would cause him great pain. Where Maddox and Thurmond differed -- for better or worse -- was in Maddox's refusal to view as wrong his defense of what he believed to be his right to keep segregated a restaurant he owned in the early 1960s. He saw the matter as a defense of his "personal property rights" in a day when, sadly, few eating establishments in Georgia would serve blacks.

In Maynard Jackson we have a symbol of the progress blacks made in politics and business during the turmoil of the '60s and '70s. That's when Jackson became the first African-American mayor of a major Southern city. Jackson parlayed that position into a career as one of the nation's most influential Democratic leaders.

Despite the significance of these men's lives and the eras in which they lived, it's clear from our survey that most who live in places like Georgia have seen and heard too much in the media about race relations. That doesn't mean most of them don't care about issues like bias or bigotry. Indeed, there are forms of discrimination against all types of Americans. Today, the largest minority group in the United States is Hispanics. They have their own struggles as they seek social and political recognition.

The easing of the tone on race relations was nicely embodied in the quiet actions of former President Jimmy Carter this past week. Rather than grandstand, Carter spoke eloquently of Mayor Jackson at the viewing of his body at the Atlanta City Hall. And in an act of grace, he tenderly gave comfort two days later day to members of the Maddox family in a private meeting at the Georgia capitol. He did this, despite Maddox's well-known and outspoken resentment of Carter for his having embraced Maddox to get elected as Georgia governor, only later to move far beyond the shadows of the Old South as president.

Carter's ability to rise above memories of the past and his refusal to capitalize on the loss of a leader reflects his wisdom and understanding that while racial issues are important, they should not obscure the dignity of those who pass away. As our polling indicates, I think readers sometimes would like to read about forgiveness, instead of yet another round of racially charged language at inappropriate moments.

Matt Towery

Matt Towery is a pollster, attorney, businessman and former elected official. He served as campaign strategist for Congressional, Senate, and gubernatorial campaigns. His latest book is Newsvesting: Use News and Opinion to Grow Your Personal Wealth. Follow him on Twitter @MattTowery