Meanwhile, on www.wisebread.com, visitors can learn how to shrink their bar tabs by watching YouTube video demonstrations. Apparently the key to free drinks is learning a few bar tricks and then convincing skeptics to make wagers. All these little triumphs may be mundane, but they can be important (well, maybe not the whiskey tricks) because many people who are too depressed to open their MasterCard bills built their debt $10 and $20 at a time.
Not everyone, however, appreciates the bloggers pontificating on the merits of frugality. "If you know so much, why aren't you filthy rich yet?" is something these public debtors must deal with. Some blog visitors become incensed at the bloggers' past indulgences - $500 shoes and luxury vacations.
One couple got chewed out when they contemplated spending $25,000 on their wedding. A tough-love critic who regularly visits www.makelovenotdebt.com chided them for paying off only $500 of their debt each month when he bragged that he pays off four times that amount. But give them credit for frugality: This soon-to-be-married couple has been shopping on Craigslist and eBay for flowers, candles, a cake server and other items for the big day. Online they even spotted a designer wedding dress - complete with a signed sketch from the creator - that was cheaper than the ordinary gowns at their local chain bridal shop.
The enterprising debtors do not seem to be living the life of ascetic monks. I didn't notice anyone advocating reusing aluminum foil or stretching a venti carmel macchiato from Starbucks into a second day by adding milk. But when they do indulge, they make sure it's covered in their budget.
In one of his posts, the man behind StopBuyingCrap summed up the admirable philosophy of many of these bloggers this way: "This isn't about being cheap at all. This isn't about hoarding up all your money so you can swim in it Scrooge McDuck style. This is about understanding your unlimited wants and how you may fulfill it with your limited resources. It's about what you can and can't afford, what's realistic and what's unrealistic."
One reason why Weight Watchers has been successful is because people like to feel they have moral support when they have to do something hard - like ignoring the Haagen-Dazs ice cream bar in the freezer.
It's the same principle with debt. If you open up your wallet too freely, you might want to spend time with this communal resource that's collectively dedicated to kneecapping MasterCard and Visa. And - here's the really great part - it's free.