And everyone who hears these words of Mine, and does not act upon them, will be like a foolish man, who built his house upon the sand. And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and burst against that house; and it fell and great was its fall. (Matt. 7:26-27 NASB)
A structure is only as strong as its foundation. If the foundation is sound, chances are the structure will be able to weather most any storm. But if the foundation is not secure, even the slightest stress can produce serious damage.
The family unit is the foundation of civilization. Healthy families are the basis of a strong and stable society. As the family goes, so goes the nation. No society can continue to flourish if its families are weak. A close examination of the state of America's families, therefore, should concern all who aspire to see our country remain strong and healthy.
Marriage and Divorce
The marital unit is the foundation of the family, but any honest observer must acknowledge that the institution of marriage is in trouble in America. The current divorce rate is almost double the divorce rate in 1960. For every two couples who get married today, another couple gets divorced. The probability of a first marriage ending in separation or divorce within ten years is 33%. That probability increases to 43% if you use a 15 year time frame. The prevalence of no-fault divorce laws has made the covenant of marriage the easiest of all contracts to break. Getting out of marriage is the easy part, but there is nothing easy about the consequences of the break-up.
Cohabitation
Disillusioned by what they see happening to their parents' marriages, more and more young people are cohabiting without the benefit of marriage. The marriage rate has decreased by approximately 50% since 1970. It's now lower than it has ever been. The number of couples living together without marrying has increased more than tenfold
Ken Connor
Ken Connor is Chairman of the
Center for a Just Society in Washington, DC.
TOWNHALL DAILY:
Sign up today and receive Townhall.com daily lineup delivered each morning to your inbox.