Kathryn Lopez

But don't miss who the pope is and what he has been doing. Embracing, admonishing, renewing, reforming. Embracing the Gospels, encountering Christ Himself so that he might share God's merciful love with anyone within the sound of his voice, or who can see his tender invitation. In his daily homilies and many addresses, he admonishes sinners -- himself, all of us -- and in a very direct way, those who work for the Holy See or in the Church and most certainly who are priests. You must act like fathers if you are called "Father"! Protect your children, help your family flourish.

It made headlines in recent days when Pope Francis asked forgiveness from victims of abuse. To think this is isolated is to miss his papacy entirely. He's being advised by Cardinal O'Malley of Boston, among others, who has been a healing pastor for a deeply scarred and scandalized people. Pope Francis has brought in lay people, abuse victims and independent consultants for further reform work and guidance. And the big picture of most everything Pope Francis is doing and saying is integral to authentic renewal.

Scandal happens when there is no relationship with God, he has said. Anyone -- and dear heavens, a priest or anyone trusted with the care and teaching of children -- who perverts that relationship or overlooks evil (and illness) is most obviously not living the Gospel, but has rejected it. Priests who committed gravely evil acts were not being Catholics, were most clearly not being the tender fathers so many of the holy men I know in the priesthood today are -- shepherding their flock in true relationship with Christ, knowing their own need for God's strength and protection, welcoming others to Him.

Everything Pope Francis has been doing since he was elected pontiff points to real Christianity. And it's not simply being nice and good. It's a radical self-surrender to a self-giving, sacrificial love for others out of the love of God.

Our hearts yearn for love and peace and this is what the Church exists to bring to people. It would be torture to live without that joy, to not see and hear proposals about the way to live it. Mercifully even the U.N. doesn't have the power to kill conscience.

Kathryn Lopez

Kathryn Jean Lopez, editor of National Review Online, writes a weekly column of conservative political and social commentary for Newspaper Enterprise Association.