Two Ways to Pursue Your Dreams

So the question becomes: How do you find the calling in your job? First, forge a personal connection with your boss. If you're working for someone you feel is charismatic or inspirational, you'll likely want to perform better in that person's eyes. There is also the possibility that you haven't gotten to know the person who is managing you -- and he or she can have valuable advice as to the direction of your career. Schedule a breakfast meeting. (Yes, breakfast. Those early morning hours signal your willingness to interact off the clock. Lunch can simply be an indicator that you're looking to kick back in the middle of the day.)

Learn to embrace autonomy while you work. Making decisions for yourself throughout the day is key to feeling good about the work you do, no matter what kind of work it is. Research has shown you'll be happier at work if you can make your own mark, even if its simply moving the couch in your office from one side of the room to the other, or scheduling your meetings at 11 a.m. when everyone else holds theirs at 4 p.m. In other words, striking out for independence doesn't have to be a battle cry, it can be a whisper and have the same mood-elevating results.

And lastly, while you're going through this process of finding the satisfaction in your work, it truly helps if you stay uplifted. Tell yourself you had a good day. Walk through the corridors with a smile rather than a scowl on your face. Here's what will happen: Your positive energy will radiate. The person in the next office you've been meaning to befriend will want to strike up a conversation. Your boss will glimpse your bright-eyed demeanor and begin to take more notice of you. If you act like you're having fun, you'll find you are having fun. I'm not promising you a party, but I can guarantee an improvement to your overall work environment.