Harry R. Jackson, Jr.

This week, we have experienced a setback, but we are encouraged by the fact that the California Marriage Amendment battle was won after gay marriage had been previously legalized. In DC we still have options. Specifically, we have the prospects of developing a citywide marriage initiative, which can establish the definition of marriage as being between one man and one woman. Our paperwork for the Marriage Initiative was filed on September 1 this year and it will be reviewed at the Board of Elections in DC on October 26.

Why should you care about the battle for marriage in DC?

First, redefining marriage means destroying traditional marriage as we know it. Second, if DC falls it will be the first decision for gay marriage below the Mason Dixon line. Our opponents will continue to boast that the tide is changing in their favor and that the Bible belt states will fall next. Finally, a DC defeat will give strength of argument to gay marriage advocates in Maryland and Virginia. Maryland has been under pressure to allow same-sex marriage for the last five years as well.

What happens in our capital will set a new tone in the culture wars of the nation. Let me be a little more specific. On Wednesday September 30, 2008, the same-sex marriage decision was pre-announced to approximately 150 gay marriage activists. These were the most engaged individuals in this process to redefine marriage. Because this bill was initiated on October 6, there will be a huge gay rights lobbying event in DC on Sunday and Monday of this same week. Gay marriage supporters expect 20,000 - 40,000 people to attend.

There is just one problem with their dream about marriage - it will become a nightmare for thousands of DC children and nuclear families in the generations to come.

It is time for the people of faith to unite across racial, cultural, and ideological lines to address this specific problem. In the DC area we have over 1200 churches that have decided to work collaboratively to protect marriage. These churches are under black, white, Hispanic, and Asian leadership, but they all have a heart for the family. I want to invite you to get involved in reclaiming the finest aspects of our American culture - faith and family.

It is not enough to defend marriage’s definition. We must strengthen marriage through personal marital interventions. Churches, counselors, and volunteer ministers must promote marriage wherever they minister. Last week I heard Roland Martin, CNN commentator and syndicated columnist, talk about his personal commitment to making his friends accountable to their marriages and families. He was addressing the National Summit on Marriage, Parenting, and Families chaired by famed football coach, Tony Dungy, and Chick-Fil-A founder, S. Truett Cathy. Like Martin we should all make a covenant with both God and our neighbors to promote healthy families. What about you are you willing to stand for marriage?

Those of us in DC need you to do three things: 1. Call your Congressmen and ask them to weigh in on DC 2. Send this e-mail to 5 friends 3. Consider sending a contribution to www.stand4marriagedc.com

Harry R. Jackson, Jr.

Bishop Harry Jackson is chairman of the High Impact Leadership Coalition and senior pastor of Hope Christian Church in Beltsville, MD, and co-authored, Personal Faith, Public Policy [FrontLine; March 2008] with Tony Perkins, president of the Family Research Council.