I find myself not fitting neatly into any of these groups. I regret that I don't have much space to lay out my position, but I'll give you the highlights.
I admit I'm far from certain about my conclusions, but I believe that those who think they are are probably deceiving themselves. We have to sort through the rubble together with a healthy dose of humility, listen with open minds to one another's ideas and set upon a course. Otherwise, we will find ourselves in a bitter intramural struggle for control of the party, which could lead to splintering.
Exit polls reveal that millions of Republicans stayed home, with the GOP having garnered fewer votes than John McCain in 2008. This is why the pollsters turned out to be correct. They were basing their models on a weak Republican turnout. Many conservatives mistakenly thought that was absurd on its face, not just because Obama was no longer the messianic figure he was in 2008 and now had a disastrous record but because of the intensity we had witnessed ourselves from 2009 on.
A combination of factors coalesced to yield this result. Too many evangelicals didn't vote, not because of any anti-Mormon prejudice, in my view, but because they weren't convinced that Romney was legitimately pro-life. I know this happened. I received the emails. This anti-Romney campaign was intense and relentless. Those eager to expel social conservatives from the party should save themselves time and liquidate the Republican Party, which would not survive without them. We don't have to be strident, and we must address social issues more intelligently, but we can surely prevail on social issues against a party that tries to kick God out of its platform and is far more extreme than Republicans.
Also, many libertarians and other strong economic conservatives are fed up with the blurred distinctions between the parties and with Republican capitulation to monstrous federal government expansions and spending.
There was also a significant number of Republicans who weren't adequately informed about Obama's record or convinced that his second term would be as disastrous as many of us expect it will be.
As much as my respect grew for Romney in the campaign, I think in retrospect that he may have erred on the side of caution. In the foreign policy debate and otherwise in the campaign, he may have gone too soft on Obama and sketched the distinctions between his policies and Obama's in pale pastels rather than paint them in bold colors. He let him get away with Benghazi and, to a lesser extent, "Fast and Furious." All this left some voters believing, as did Frank Luntz's focus group, that though Obama wasn't such a nice guy after all, Romney wasn't so knowledgeable or competent on foreign policy as Obama was -- an outrageously erroneous conclusion but one Romney permitted by default. Romney also left Obama's most vulnerable issue, Obamacare -- his Achilles' heel, the galvanizing issue of the tea party movement itself and of the 2010 congressional campaigns -- on the cutting room floor, for obvious reasons.
As many of us conservatives have preached for years, contrary to the conventional wisdom of the establishment, though you must woo independents, you must first secure and energize your base. Romney performed well with independents, and I had talked myself into believing that he was motivating the base, as well, but hindsight reveals that he didn't quite close the sale with many of them, which is amazing considering Obama's record.
Obama did not reciprocate in positive and cautious campaigning. Even without presenting his own second-term agenda, through negative and targeted campaigning, he falsely depicted Romney as the one who hadn't presented specific plans to turn the economy around and reduce our debt. Further, he demonized Romney, distorted his record, scapegoated George W. Bush -- to the point that a large percentage of the public actually bought into this lunacy -- lied about his own record and worked his base into a frenzy through divisive race and class warfare.
It is difficult to compete against a sophisticated propaganda machine run by ruthless community organizers who have been refining their skills for decades. When you're up against that kind of opponent, you must fight back harder and more aggressively, and you must be unafraid to portray your opponent as the radical he is. Romney could have done a better job emphasizing the dire consequences that would result with Obama's re-election.
There is no question demographics have changed significantly and will continue to change. There is no doubt that large percentages of people are on government assistance, which makes the Republicans' future more challenging. But I reject the fatalistic conclusion that we can't turn this around.
Despite all the advantages of his incumbency, a hyper-corrupt liberal media establishment's protecting him and a ruthless but highly skilled propaganda machine, Obama won re-election by a relatively small margin.
Conservative ideas -- our founding principles -- are still salable, but it will require more than empty rhetoric. We must faithfully adhere to them in practice. Republicans have a mixed record on resisting the expansion of the welfare state, entitlements and the size and spending of the federal government. We just have to figure out how to make our case more effectively and to reach minorities and, yes, single women, without diluting our transcendent and universal principles. Outreach is fine, as long as it doesn't mean becoming mini-liberals, as we have seen with our forays into federal programs on education.
Though Republicans have had remarkably strong intervals in holding back government spending -- such as the Newt Gingrich Congress, for which Bill Clinton has forever co-opted the credit -- we haven't been so consistent in resisting spending as liberals have been relentless in expanding it. Even our beloved supply-siders have been negligent about the spending side of the equation. Keeping marginal tax rates low spurs economic growth, but neglecting restraints on federal spending smothers the private sector, which is the tale of Obama's first term. It also allows Democrats to deceitfully blame increasing deficits on growth-inducing tax cuts instead of the reckless spending that causes them.
So let's do a better job of walking the walk instead of merely talking the talk. Let's have a sincere discussion within the conservative movement and the Republican Party and then choose the best course on which to proceed.
We must never give up. America is not over.
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