The battle to keep your credit in tip-top shape isn't easy, especially for young people.
The billions or maybe trillions of dollars being spent in advertising to show you how easy it is to live today and worry about it tomorrow trumps a lot of people's resistance. The credit card companies didn't get as big as they are by accident. They know how to push your buttons and they do!
Now back to the problem: poor credit. Poor credit affects you in so many ways because it limits the alternatives you have when money is short and problems aren't. There isn't one simple formula that will work for everyone. My critics will tell you that all you need to do is quit spending unless you have the cash, but they obviously haven't been there when your child is sick and needs medicine that you can't afford. They weren't there when you lost your job and your hope at the same time. They do not know what the constant phone calls can do to your psyche.
Sit down and make a real list of your bills, leaving nothing off. The list should include the amount and the monthly minimum payment. Now list all your income leaving nothing off including any financial help from your parents, friends or relatives. Now get a real idea of what your house is worth. Now you have the entire puzzle and you can start to figure it out.
“Seek help” is not a saying, it is part of the solution.
For those who have never been in financial trouble, the above sounds infantile. It isn't, because the hardest thing you have to do is face the truth, uncover the mess and then try to solve it. Not part of it, but all of it.
The missing ingredient to recovery is the need to include reserves in the formula, as it will not work without reserves. Why, because the first problem that arises will trigger the old solution. Once you have reserves, your chances of recovery are ten times greater than without them. They must be a part of the plan.
What I have written today is not a happy subject, but it can be. Take action and it will be.
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