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For example, William Penn, the founder of Pennsylvania, wrote: "(A) Husband and Wife that love and value one another, (show) their Children and Servants, That they should do so too. Others visibly lose their Authority in their Families by their Contempt of one another; and teach their Children to be unnatural by their own Example."

In 1799, two years before his two terms as president, Thomas Jefferson wrote to his wife, Mary, and compared the political climate to his home by saying, "Environed here in scenes of constant torment, malice, and obloquy, worn down in a station where no effort to render service can avail anything, I feel not that existence is a blessing, but when something recalls my mind to my family or farm."

Jefferson also wrote to the renowned explorer William Clark, "By a law of our nature, we cannot be happy without the endearing connections of a family."

Benjamin Rush -- a physician, educator and signer of the Declaration of Independence -- wrote to his wife Julia, saying, "I shall be better satisfied if the same can be said of me as was said of the prophet of old, 'That I walked in the fear of the Lord, and begat sons and daughters' (Genesis 5:22), than if it were inscribed upon my tombstone that I governed the councils or commanded the arms of the whole continent of America."

You know the statistics today. You see the problems. Too many families are in complete disarray.

To achieve a better country will require a cultural and spiritual reformation. But we don't need to wait for some mass movement to start. We can initiate one with ourselves and our families. God has given every one of us the capacity to make a difference in this world for the better, and it starts at home, today.

There's no debate over what we need to do. The story is as old as the Bible, as basic as love and respect, and as pragmatic as Benjamin Franklin's advice when he said, "Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, half shut afterwards." (I hope he eventually took his own advice!)

Let's get on with it! We can't wait for Washington to rebuild our country. It starts and ends with us -- we the people.

It's August -- still summer -- and maybe time (again) to get our focus off the president's time with his family and back on our time with ours.

For far more thoughts and encouragement, I highly recommend reading the chapter titled "Honor and Care for the Family" in my book Black Belt Patriotism. You can get it at any bookstore or on my official website, at

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Chuck Norris is a columnist and impossible to kill.