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Friday, June 01, 2007
Rebecca Hagelin :: Townhall.com Columnist
Readers "Blow Off Steam" Over Male-Bashing
by Rebecca Hagelin
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A few weeks ago, as the controversy over Don Imus and the Rutgers University women’s basketball team was brewing, I wrote a column highlighting a certain double standard. Why, I wondered, does no one take up for one of the only groups of people it’s politically correct to insult -- males?

White males in particular, especially if they’re fathers, are routinely portrayed as lazy dolts in the mass media. I’m a wife and mother of two teenage sons who are being raised in an anti-male media culture -- a culture that far too often spews the mantra of radical feminism. The guys in my life are good, decent men. It makes me sick each time “their kind” is attacked in commercials, television shows, print ads -- you name it.

“Where’s the outrage?” I asked. I then invited readers to respond.

Wow. Did they ever! As a conservative columnist who has written candidly about some controversial topics, I’ve had my share of e-mails. But nothing topped the river of e-mails that flooded my in-box. About 99 percent were completely supportive, thanking me for broaching the topic -- a topic they were grateful to vent about themselves. As more than one reader wrote, “Thanks for letting me blow off steam.”

A lot of people were just glad someone stood up and said what was on their minds. “I’m glad I saw your story ‘Imus, white males and PC discrimination’,” a typical reader wrote. “I had begun to think that maybe I was the only one who noticed this or that I was just being paranoid.” Some were upset, but others faced the topic with humor, such one who wrote: “Thanks for standing up for us morons.”

They came from all walks of life. I heard from truck drivers, college students, grandfathers and fathers. Some had witnessed the double standard in their profession:

“As an attorney, I have handled many cases where good Dads are falsely accused of abuse. The courts and the authorities give the allegations credibility simply because the allegations have been made by a woman. There seems to be a mentality that all women are honorable and would never manipulate the system. Unfortunately, the presumption of innocence does not apply when a man is accused, e.g., the Duke Lacrosse team.”

Plenty of women chimed in, too, on behalf of husbands and sons:

“Our son graduated from high school last year. It was amazing to watch during his senior year how several of his teachers reacted to him when he stated he was joining the military. (He's currently in the U.S. Coast Guard.) Talk about hostility.”

Another wrote:

“My 27-year-old daughter and I are forever marveling at how contemptuously men are portrayed in everything from TV commercials to sitcoms and even some movies. The feminist influence is so obvious and I can't help but wonder why no one raises a complaint against it. That is why I was so glad to see your column. It's about time someone said something about this outrageous discrimination.” Continued...

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Rebecca Hagelin is a public speaker on the family and culture and the author of the new best seller, 30 Ways in 30 Days to Save Your Family.
 
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Isn't it amazing
that those women who are most anti-feminist (even those with high-paying salaries, thank you very much), are the ones who are the busiest defending men. They don't just say bad things about women who essentially have said "we are NOT the initial cause of evil in this world and therefore must be relegated 2nd class citizenry" but they feel they must also prop up the king of creation. HMMMM.

If men are indeed the king of creation, can't they prop themselves up. It doesn't always take violence, you know. Believing in yourself makes
a big difference.

I think that a whole lot of this nonsense talk would go away if a whole lot of men would marry the mother of their children, support them, show love for them, and guide them to maturity. - in other words, be a real man. Unfortunately, too
many women have had to be both mom and pop to
their children, often to the detriment of all.

Women (feminist or not) are not the enemy.
Women did not take power away from men. Women asked for a right to follow their dreams and have
a say in the society they are a part of and in
the legal system under which they are judged.
If men have lost their own power, it is because
they either expected too much power at the direct
expense of others, or they have thrown it away.
I wonder how many have done just that because they feel that they are only powerful if they have legal and societal affirmation of their power.

There are several posters on this site that would
suggest that is exactly where they are.
Blame the women. It is all their fault. I
would still be king of the hill, if only .......


To Dave Stone
Just for the record, after trying to make sense
out of your post and failing, anti-feminism is a
whole lot closer the the Middle Eastern culture
than to any present European culture. Who is
calling whom names here?

I am glad, however, that we do not rely on your
approval for our sense of well-being. Are women
the only ones who are capable of bad mouthing and
hating. I think you have proven otherwise.
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