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Friday, March 23, 2007
Rebecca Hagelin :: Townhall.com Columnist
Finding a decent place to stay
by Rebecca Hagelin
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“It’s so common now. Who hasn’t seen something like that?”

The speaker: a 17-year-old girl. The topic: pornography. She was quoted in a recent AP story about the rising number of kids being exposed to graphic sexual images online. In the February issue of Pediatrics, researchers at the University of New Hampshire report that 42 percent of Internet users aged 10 to 17 had seen online porn over the course of a year. The London School of Economics estimates that nine out of 10 children who go online will, at some point, be exposed to hardcore porn. (Mom and Dad, if you don’t have a filter, get one now. I recommend the excellent, affordable, easy-to-use filter from www.BSafe.com. It takes only a few minutes and a few keystrokes to download.)

In our 24-hour, Internet-laced, interconnected world, it seems as if it would be easier to list the places you won’t encounter pornography. Years ago, its lowlife customer base had to seek it out, under a brown wrapper or in the seedy section of town. Now, porn peddlers seek you out -- at video stores, on billboard ads that line interstate highways, on television, at the newsstand, in your e-mail inbox.

And, of course, there’s the hotel room. Hard-core sex material is often discovered just by flipping through the channels while looking for the local weather report. Many other hotels make a killing by peddling trashy porn movies that can be discreetly billed to one’s account.

We must not acquiesce in the pornification of our culture. We shouldn’t meekly retreat into the progressively smaller corners we’re so graciously allowed to inhabit. It’s time to fight back.

When it comes to hotel rooms, I have a suggestion: The next time you’re booking a place to stay, check out cleanhotels.com. Simply type in your destination, and CleanHotels provides a list of all the porn-free hotels in the area. Select one of these hotels each time you travel and send a strong message to hotels that care more about making a cheap buck than they do about decency. In other words, let your money do the talking -- it’s one language all merchants understand.

Hotel porn is big business. Remember that that next time you hear the smut peddlers demonizing the “Christian Right” and wrapping themselves in the flag. What they really care about is their precious bottom line. They made about $1.6 billion from their adult pay-per-view and video-on-demand businesses in 2006, according to Kagan Research, a California-based media consulting group. That’s up from $593 million in 1996.

Small wonder that porn producers don’t look too kindly upon Phil Burress, the man behind CleanHotels. Unfortunately for them, they’re dealing with a smart and principled opponent. I’ve had the privilege of knowing Phil for many years, and he’s about the gutsiest, most tender-hearted person I’ve ever met. He works hard to protect kids, and his many initiatives and victories as president of Citizens for Community Values qualify him, in my book, for “Man of the Year.”

Because Phil is such a tireless fighter, he doesn’t merely list the hotels that refuse to show pornographic films. He leads a coalition of community groups that encourage the hotel chains that do offer such films to drop them. He also urges folks like you to report hotels that peddle smut.

Why should you care if you aren’t going to view the garbage? For one thing, pornography often proves highly addictive and contributes to many other problems that plague society, from divorce and domestic violence to prostitution and organized crime. In a paper presented to a special U.S. Senate subcommittee, Jill Manning, a social scientist and former visiting fellow at The Heritage Foundation, highlighted pornography’s many devastating harms, which are documented in a huge body of peer-reviewed research.

Another itsy-bitsy item to consider regarding sleaze-inns and whore-tels that peddle perversion: Do you really want to room next to a guy who’s just consumed hardcore sleaze? Do you want your wife or daughter walking by his door, or bumping into him in the elevator?

Fortunately, many hotels have opted out of the pornography business.

Omni Hotels is one of the biggest chains to care more about civility than dirty dollars. “We have had over 50,000 messages of support,” spokeswoman Kim Blackmon said. Among them was a traveling businessman who wrote: “Thanks for the taking away the temptation.”

The next time you plan to travel, use your wallet to cast a vote for decency. Visit cleanhotels.com and support the chains that care enough about their customers to realize that cleanliness means more than fresh sheets and a mint on your pillow.

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Rebecca Hagelin is a public speaker on the family and culture and the author of the new best seller, 30 Ways in 30 Days to Save Your Family.
 
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How much harm?
I'm not a fan of porn. I tried to keep my kids from seeing it. But it's not clear how harmful it is. Kids on the farm see sex all the time. It used to be a saying that farmer children understood the facts of life better than kids from the town.

I was more concerned with TV shows that pushed bad values -- Southpark, American Idol, pretend wrestling.

What's the Big Deal?
I don't understand why cultural conservatives like Mrs. Hagelin
get their panties into such a twist over the idea of adolescents
being exposed to pornography. No one ever seems to explain why
it bothers them so much. The feminists natter about the "objec-
tification" of women, but few conservatives echo that particular
concern and indeed, most well-adjusted people seem to be skeptical
that it's a realistic concern. So...what is it?

I'm convinced that in the case of younger children, parental
concern about kids' exposure to sex is really just a smoke-
screen for parents' own sexual hang-ups -- specifically, for their
embarassment at the idea of talking about sex with their progeny
and their dread of being asked questions about sexual matters at
awkward times ("Hi, Grandma! Mommy, what's 'fell@tio?'").

In the case of teenagers, however, parental reticence is more
difficult to understand. Again, the idea that seeing pictures
of sex will be an enticement to go out and experience it first-
hand, and thereby expose kids to sexually-transmitted diseases,
is just a smokescreen; I saw the same thing from parents in the
age before AIDS. If there were no STDs or possibility of un-
wanted pregnancy, they'd find some other excuse to angst about
teen sex.

Put the girls on the pill and stress to the boys the importance
of using condoms, and let them go bang their little hormone-soaked
hearts out. Kids in Europe become sexually active at younger ages
than they typically do in the U.S., and it hasn't led to societal
collapse. (Europe has its problems, but anyone who insists that
they're the result of adolescent sexuality has a long row to hoe.)

Computer filters are silly. Kids' looking at porn on the Internet
is a natural, healthy result of their budding sexuality. Many of
them have already had sex, and all of them are masturbating. You
may as well try to stop the tides.


-CB-

P.S.

This article was initially rejected because the word "fell@tio"
was deemed "unacceptable." See what I mean about silly sexual
hangups? That word is a clinical term; there's nothing remotely
obscene about it, for crissake!

So as a workaround, I simply substituted an "@" sign for the
"a." I hope that doesn't, er, leave a bad taste in anybody's
mouth...


To Ms Hagelin
Although I don't agree with everything you are conserned about, I agree with everything you said and advocated. I notice that you did not advocate censorship, that is great. You advocated a free-market approach in choosing a hotel. That is great but it is unlikely to have much impact for several reasons. (1) The free market has already decided that porn should be available in motels (you admitted they are making a ton of money). (2) Most people only travel with their children when on vacation. (3) Finally, it is almost impossible to get people together on these kinds of issues.

BTW, if you stay at the hotels actually located within Disney World there is no porno on their TVs. (Or at least there was none when I was there about 10 years ago.)

Blimey!!!!
Kathy are you real or some clever satire like Loyal Democrat? I don't know what time it is in the US but it seems a little early to be drinking which I assume is why your posts make no sense either grammatically or cognitively.
Having said that I don't think it's a good idea for children to have such easy access to pornography. In my day you had to make do with a mildly titilating magazine stolen off your dad.

Kathy

Kathy writes:

> Children are children, because they are innocents.

Oh. I thought it was because they're, like, really young
and stuff.


> If sexperts want to indulge in sexual gradification acts
> and drag children into the hell, I say I would slap you
> down, Put you in Jail and through away the key,

Who are these so-called "sexperts" you're talking about?


> If you don't see what is happening in soceity in this age
> of anything goes, your soul is dead and has no human worth.

You sound like a liberal, the way you demonize people just for
disagreeing with you.


> You slum bags, scum bags and totally worthless human pieces
> of sh*it should be hanged.

Hey, that's insensitive and mean-spirited.


> I love children and for a loving parent children are our
> treasure. God, gave them to fillfull the need for love,
> true love of a decent loving parent, not the sick, preverted

"Preverted?"

"I think you're some kind of deviated prevert. I think
General Ripper found out about your preversion, and that
you were organizing some kind of mutiny of preverts!"

-- Colonel "Bat" Guano ("Doctor Strangelove, Or How I Learned
To Stop Worrying And Love the Bomb" (1964))


> sexperts that crawl the earth, spreading their death and destruction.

Er, how did we come to be talking about pedophilia? No one here has
advocated adults having sex with children.


> You sick ones need to know that loving people need you to get
> well so our children can be safe. Amen!!!! Praise Jesus!!!!

Ph'nglui mglw'nafh Cthulhu R'lyeh wgah'nagl fhtagn!

Yeesh.



-CB-

I dunno what disturbs me more.
Kathy or Creighton Beryll?

Pornography is poison. Make no mistake; it rots the soul and colors the perception of everyone involved in it.

"You slum bags, scum bags and totally worthless human pieces of sh*it should be hanged" is not the response I would expect of a Christian. All have sinned and are in need of the mercy of God, the pornographer as well as the housewife.

Although CB gets points..
for the Cthulhu reference.

hoosiertoo

hoosiertoo writes:

> Pornography is poison. Make no mistake; it rots the soul
> and colors the perception of everyone involved in it.


You just don't know where to get the good stuff.


-CB-

Unfortunately -
I do.

Unbelievable
I couldn't imagine anyone disagreeing with this article. Thanks to some, my faith in human depravity has been restored.

Blimey (again!!!)
"What they really care about is their precious bottom line". Profit motive in the US, who'd have thunk it!!!!

Creighton Beryl
It is easy to "find the good stuff" Just go to your nearest public library. They don't allow filters.

To WiPer06
Our local library system (SC) has a "filter system" and forbids bypassing it as part of the rules.

In addition;
That filter system is State wide via legislative action.

Vic
You and your children are very fortunate. If Creighton Beryll lives in the same state he will just have to move.

It looks like everything
from 10:00 am down has been deleted.

Cretin
It is surprising that Cretin has found time to stray from his more preferred websites.

Creighton Beryll
I do appreciate CB's openness about stating what other people should be doing. At least he/she is not pretending to avoid judging others, and is not pretending to respect the judgments or decisions of others about their own lives, and their child-rearing.

Refreshing.
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