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Friday, February 13, 2009
Mike Gallagher :: Townhall.com Columnist
A Little Kindness Lasts a Lifetime
by Mike Gallagher
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A few years ago, I was introduced to an international relief organization called “Food for the Poor.” I traveled to Jamaica to see in person what this wonderful agency does for the world’s poorest of the poor.

For many impoverished people, living under a tarp or in a cardboard box is a way of life. Fueled by the kindness and generosity of strangers, “Food for the Poor” builds houses for people.

These houses are not what we would consider the typical American residence. But these small, brightly-colored homes offer something that thousands of people have never experienced before: a front door with a lock, windows, rooms -- a place to call their own.

In many cases, the joy and honor of having a home has lifted people into a spirit of determination to try and achieve a better life for themselves and their families. They often do.

But no matter what happens, at least they have a solid, safe roof over their heads.

Shortly after my wife Denise died last year, “Food for the Poor” went ahead and built a house in her honor and memory. When I received a photo and a certificate showing me the house they built, I remember beaming. She would have been so proud.

My Denise championed the underdog. Her tender heart ached for poor people, for abused or abandoned pets, for any living creature that faced hard times.

While she was not a person who liked anyone to fuss over her, she certainly would love the idea that today, a grateful family is living in a house in Jamaica that was built in recognition of her wonderful life.

I miss her every hour of every day.

So it is with a heavy but full heart that I am on my way to Jamaica with some of my dearest friends to visit Denise’s house.

While there, I am going to broadcast my radio show and feature “Food for the Poor.”

It costs $2600.00 to build one of these amazing little houses.

I am on a mission to honor Denise by trying to get at least ten of these houses built for her.

The way I see it, if “Food for the Poor” can be kind enough to build one house, I can reach out to my listeners and readers and try and repay their graciousness ten-fold.

If you would like to help me, please go to www.mikeonline.com and click on the “Food for the Poor” banner. If calling them directly would be more convenient, operators are ready at 1-866-433-HOPE. Any sized donation will help me fulfill my mission. My fantasy is that a number of churches or business leaders or even individuals who have been blessed in life will want to have an entire house built and donate the full amount for a residence.

But I know that’s probably being greedy.

If you can give 10, 50, 100 dollars, it will matter. Together, we can do this. And one day, I hope to know that my precious wife led to at least ten families -- maybe many more -- who are sheltered from the storms and live in warmth and safety in their own houses.

That would make her very, very happy.

Thank you.

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Mike Gallagher is a nationally syndicated radio host, Fox News Channel contributor and guest host and author of Surrounded by Idiots: Fighting Liberal Lunacy in America.

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GOD BLESS YOU!
American people are inherently very generous people inspite of others may say and think. I will be praying for your continued success and well being and will be spreading the word your campaign. Good Luck and God Bless!

Yet another scam...
...that I've heard 1,000 times. Food for the poor, housing for the poor, build a school for the poor...all for a group of people ignored by their own people and dependent on the Kindness of guilty Americans. None of it does any good and doesn't change the overall situation of their country. But, most importantly, is not appreciated by the people. Yes, when you get down there, there will be pictures of the grateful new home owners and you'll do interviews with the folks building them and handling the money (asking for more, I'm sure) but as soon as you leave they'll sneer and go back to feeling entitled to it and wondering why they didn't get more and thinking about how to get some more "free stuff" from Americans...I'm sick of it and am bored by people who don't see through all of this after all this time...

Don,
For you I offer the hope that someday you will be "poor," that you will have needs beyond your ability and beyond your self. And then I hope that one such as Mike, or Food for the Poor, will reach out to you unconditional,with compassion and extend a cup of cold water. God bless.

Great cause
Thank you for telling people about this great group. It was started by one man that cared a lot and has done so much good, as you said. We give monthly, as they not only build houses, but as the name says they help feed people who are doing their best to get by and can not. We can not do much but when added to others that do the same, amazing things happen.

We are sorry for your loss... your love jumps from the page. What treater way to honor your love for you wife. She lives on in your actions.

Verbivore...

Don,
For you I offer the hope that someday you will be "poor," that you will have needs beyond your ability and beyond your self.
_______________________________________________
Wait a minute...you hope I will be "poor" someday?? and that I'll "have needs beyond my ability and beyond my self" (whatever that means??). That's real nice, a true compassionate person...the same type that preaches but doesn't do anything...I've seen it 100 times...Keep your "god bless" and how 'bout a "Judge not lest ye be judged"???

Compassion without compromise
The people you helped was not planted there for some religious organization to defraud anyone. The fact you did this awhile ago and is now speaking of it prove it was not done for any earthly gain. Your testimony of your experience is awesome, and I believe it was the will of God. You are great to honor your wife, and maintain your faith. Thank you for all your inspiration and stepping out on faith. A lot of greiving spouses lose their faith because of the lost. God bless you and Jesus always walk with you. Peace have a blessed day

A Difference
I read this article through three times because I couldn't believe my eyes. A conservative champions doing something to help the poor? Ah yes, I see now---they aren't the American poor. It's romantic to help the Jamaican poor---just as long as you keep sneering at attempts (political or otherwise) to help the American poor who, as conservatives know, are poor only because they choose to be, want charity, actually have hidden assets, want to defraud the government, are lazy, et al. 150 years ago Ralph Waldo Emerson got it right: "Thy charity abroad is spite at home."

Good Search
Food for the Poor is a wonderful organization that bsomething like 94% of all contributions on services to provide housing, clothing, food, education, and other services to the poorest of the poor. Another way to help Food for the Poor besides direct contributions is to use the web search engine Goodsearch.com Just type in the name of the charity, and donations are made by sponsors to the charity of your choice.

Lilly conservative help the poor here ..
Well, BO gave the homeless black woman a card to the local government to help her. He cares so much, doesn't he.
Well, guess who help her?
http://www.cnn.com/2009/POLITICS/02/11/henrietta.hughes/ It was the wife of a Republican Congressman. Where were the BO supports who really care about people? NO where to be found.

Don @9:20 am
"Judge not...." Yes, do not judge the people who have been given homes, saying "Yes, when you get down there, there will be pictures of the grateful new home owners and you'll do interviews with the folks building them and handling the money (asking for more, I'm sure) but as soon as you leave they'll sneer and go back to feeling entitled to it and wondering why they didn't get more and thinking about how to get some more "free stuff" from Americans...I'm sick of it and am bored by people who don't see through all of this after all this time... " Are you sure that this is their response?

Working the Wrong End of the Problem
While I have zero objection to your wish to help people who need help, it is woring the wrong end of the problem. It boils down to an age ole question, is it better to feed a person, or is it better to teach a person to feed themselves. When you provide someone with a roof over their heads, you have not addreesed why they needed that help. The correct policy is to figure out how to help them help themselves, so they are able on their own to put a roof over their head.

lilly is a bulb growing dim with age.
There is a whole book on how most charity is given by conservatives, but the facts would probably just confuse her.

Don
What personal experience do you have that has informed your negative opinion?

I have been to Malawi (twice) and in touch with Malawians for over 14 years, to Mexico, Costa Rica, and to Haiti. I have also been to many mission trips around here repairing houses, and have restored houses in Mississippi that were damaged by Katrina. My experiences certainly don't match your assessment.

Being poor
I've been poor, as in "everything I own is in that back pack". Having a secure place to keep "stuff" really helps. Can't cook in a pot that's been stolen.

As for what people overseas think of the US, what we "know" is what the news media has told us.

Who believes the news media?

Lilly
Conservatives use their own money so they don't have to talk about it.

Liberals have to talk a lot about helping the poor to deflect the outrage felt by the people the liberals are stealing the money from.

Naturally, the Liberals charge a handling fee...

What a...
... terrific story!

Honoring her memory.

Mike... knowing that words are seldom adequate, let me, nevertheless, tell you how truly sorry I am for your loss.

Let me also say that I really admire your efforts to help the most unfortunate among us to have a place of their own... and then doing it in your wife's memory.

What a profound tribute.

Our church has been doing a similar kind of out-reach for some time.

I was also saddened to read Don's post. Lilly's was equally sad, but predictable.

However, every time that I want to get under the skin of a liberal, I just tell them...

"I am a conservative... because I'm for the little guy."

Perhaps no one has been able to point out to both Don and Lilly that while private charity builds up... public charity destroys.

But most likely, they're simply not listening... because they really don't want to.

And that is most sad...



Lilly
It amazes me that you can even read when I see stupidity like yours on display. Guess what conservatives do give way more donations here to the poor also. They believe in helping the poor without corrupt government involvement. Something being from Illinois that you would not have a clue about. And let's see condemn Mike Gallagher. Where is your utter outrage when Oprah runs to South Africa all the time. Why not here if that if your reasoning. Of course she is a liberal so that is different.

Conservatives & Charity
Lilly: Perhaps you are unaware of recent res earch that's been done by non-partisan sources concerning the amount of money given to charity from people who identify themselves as conservatives vs. those who identify themselves as liberals. The former far out-donate the latter when it comes to charit causes, and this has been the case traditionally as well.

Two prominent examples of this came up during the Presidential campaign when it was revealed that Barack Obama gave approximately 2-3% of his income to charity over the past 3 years...and, not to be outdone, his running mate--Joe Biden--gave a whopping 1/4-1/2 of 1% of his income to charity. Yes, those liberals sure are concerned for the poor!!!

Any Man
Any man who is a friend of Mike Wallace and Food for the Poor can't be all bad.

Zentrist

lilly - sigh!!!
Last summer the youth of my church participated iwth a group called World Changers. They reroofed two houses in our town that are owned by poor people. This is a Christian organization making use of volunteer labor to accomplish physical needs within our community and country.

Habitat for Humanity was started by a Christian conservative who saw a need and gave up his personal fortune to make it happen. It continues today because Christians (who are mostly conservatives) continue to give of their time and their money to keep it going.

The Jeremiah Project, Samaritan's Purse and the Cooperative Program of the Southern Baptist Convention are all examples of conservatives giving to poverty addresssing organizations that operate within the United States. I mention that last one because 98% of all funds given to SBC North American Missions goes to the field for actual work rather than for salaries, etc. SBC funds salaries another way. Most of these organizations are very careful to spend their money on the actual mission, rather than on fund-raising and HQ salaries, something that organizations like the Peace Corp can't claim.

Don
I have friends who are missionaries in Tanzania. They've been there coming up hard on 30 years now. When they got there things were a mess, but they've improved, mainly because the husband is an argicultural engineer who has taught the people of their 10-village area how to farm more effectively. That, and the Christian faith has just about wiped out AIDS in their area, which is another discussion.

When the tsunami hit the Indian Ocean countries, the villagers learned of it and wanted to know how they could help. Ditto when we were hit by Katrina. Of course, what help they can offer is modest by our standards, but they wanted to help. This grew from the kindness that had been shown to them by others in the past. Instead my friends organized them to help a nearby village dig a retaining pond for irrigation. That was an unchurched area when Katrina hit us. Now, as of last month, they were building a new church building there -- well, a roof on poles to keep the rain off while they worship -- and farm production is already up 15%. That's a good work started by those who were "charity cases" not so long ago.

Oh, clarification
My youth reroofed two houses. The World Changers organization community wide did MUCH more than that! They painted, repaired, and weather-stripped houses, did plumbing, etc. My kids only had a week and so reroofed two houses. In all, something like 25 local families received aid, completely free of charge. A couple of years ago, a group from our church joined a larger group in Florida and that city-wide effort impacted several hundred homes owned by poor people.

Lilly-IL
Not long ago one of the other TH posters welcomed U back-that person also indicated that they felt U had been unfairly treated during ur previous tenure..I waited and saw why some folk might have been a tad reluctant to *warm up* to you..I hope I have the wrong impression.
Incidntally, I am on durned every Non-profit mailing list in America and I contribute to more than a few..just because I have to exclude some doesn't mean I don't care. HAVE A NICE DAY

The Government's Role
I would truly like to buy the idea that conservatives are as generous (or even more so) as liberals. This would make life better for everyone.

Unfortunately, I just don't buy it. Conservatives demonstrate their lack of empathy and concern for the poor through their voting record. Any kind of government spending in support of the less fortunate is viewed as corrupt, promoting dependency, inefficient, or flat-out "socialism". Taxes, which could be used to help the poor, are viewed as evil.

I understand (to some extent) the excuses. Someone remarked that it's better to give directly than through the corrupt government.
But how do you know this Gallagher author isn't corrupt? What is the evidence for government corruption, and how can it be controlled?

Conservatives brag about all their charity contributed through their churches. But again, how much is skimmed off the top before it reaches the poor? And how much of this charity results from peer-pressure rather than true empathy? I'm not saying this is a bad thing, but it shouldn't replace the government's role.

In reality, it's much more efficient to do it through the government. The evidence for corruption is limited at best, and the idea that helping someone creates dependency (another excuse) is an enormous oversimplification.

One reason some liberals don't favor private charities is that one of their primary principles is that helping the poor is one of the main things governments should do.

None
Sure, I agree that "it is better to teach a person" etc. However, there is something called a "pyramid of needs." Oxygen, water, food, shelter top that pyramid. If I'm starving to death and you take me out on the water to teach me to fish, and the fish just aren't biting that day, I'm still hungry. Or, if you teach me to fish, but I don't have a way to cook that fish, I'm still hungry. If I don't know where I'm sleeping that night, all the GED programs in the world won't assuage my worry. Sometimes it is worthwhile to give a man a fish.

Conservatives and giving
Conservatives give more than is known but they don't show off, like liberals in Hollywood do.

Joe Biden doesn't give a thing, and Al Gore, who is rich as Fort Knox, is a cheapskate. So are the Clintons who rake in millions from Arab dictators and anti-Americans and anti-semites.

One very effective group in Thailand after the tsunami was the conservative Jewish group known as "Chabad" (they were from the same movement as the ones killed in the Mumbai Massacre in December in India).

In Thailand, Chabad members rented trucks, bought clothing, blankets, tents, food, etc and got it into the interior eventhough most roads were washed out. It must have been quite a scene, a few kippahs in the midsts of Buddhists and Moslems.

The other greatest charity relief organization in the Tsunami disaster was the US. Pacific Carrier Task Force.

Conservatives do charitable work - they just don't brag about it like limosine liberals do (except Angelina Jolie - she walks the walk).

Dr. Douglas
You need to heal thyself and get some serious mental help. You are so ideological bent that you absolutely refuse to see the best of people, unless it is of course liberal people.

Not every single thing in life should be viewed through a political prism.

lilly
I, for one, do not welcome you back. You offer nothing to any discussion. You proclaim to know it all and refuse to see that people just may not agree with you, and why they may not agree with you.

You are a narrow minded, nonobjective bigot that thinks because your bigotry is aimed at anyone you disagree with, namely conservatives, that somehow it is justified. Everything is your way or the highway. Well dearie that doesn't make you liberal, but it does make you totalitarian.

Like Dr. Douglas you need serious mental help.

lilly...one other thing
"I read this article through three times because I couldn't believe my eyes. A conservative champions doing something to help the poor? Ah yes, I see now---they aren't the American poor. It's romantic to help the Jamaican poor---just as long as you keep sneering at attempts (political or otherwise) to help the American poor who, as conservatives know, are poor only because they choose to be, want charity, actually have hidden assets, want to defraud the government, are lazy, et al. 150 years ago Ralph Waldo Emerson got it right: "Thy charity abroad is spite at home.""

Why do I get the feeling that if we focused more on the poor at home you would complain about the poor abroad?! why does everything have to be this or that proposition with you? Are we not capable of helping the poor at home as well as abroad? Can you not walk and chew bubble gum?

One thing you also negate is the poor in America have much more opportunity of escaping poverty here in America due to our government, religion, and economic system. The poor abroad do not have those same opportunities since it was those above named systems that put them there, and keeps them there to begin with.

So while I have sympathy for the poor here, yes I can categorically state I do have more sympathy for the poor abroad. Here we have opportunities, abroad there is none.

lolo!-CA
Glad to see Ur post and I agree with much of what U say.. I DO NOT respond to the *dr* since
I don't agree with his slant on ANYTHING!!
I will continue to monitor Ms Lilly for awhile..the other entity is on my *scroll by* list.
My son in DC just sent me an article on the "Elite Schools'" position on non-use of SATs
due to "some groups not doing well" on said tests..That would be the Koreans, I suppose??

Dr Douglas
Conservative voting record is explained by the fact that we don't think people are helped by setting them up to be lazy and dependent their whole lives. We choose candidates that recognize that government does just that, to the detriment of everyone who receives aid or has their income reduced through forced taxation.

Have you ever studied how much of our tax dollars that are designated for charity ever makes it to actual people? I have. Good example is the Literacy Council of my town. Government-grant of 200,000 yearly. The exec director is paid $50,000. The assistant is paid $35,000. The office staff is $25,000. Add another $25,000 for benefits. The building costs $20,000 a year, mortgage and utilities. $155,000 goes for staff and the building. That leaves $45,000 to educate people. They estimate they help 50 people a year using volunteer teachers at a cost of about $50 per class to the students.

My church has been doing the same thing for 60 years. We teach about 50 people a year (our best year was 80, but that was pre-Lit Council) completely free of charge and completely with volunteers, except for those times when our pastor steps in to sub and his salary comes from something else.

If my tax rates our lowered because the government no longer provides the services of the Lit Council, I will give more to my church and my church will spend that to help more people -- completely free of charge.

That's why we object to candidates that want to spend money on "charity". Not because we don't care, but because we recognize that government wastes money while truly non-profit organizations (as in volunteer) do not. Lower taxes means more people get helped.

Very sorry for your loss
I am very sorry for your loss.

I am also sorry to say I won't be making a donation for use in Jamaica or any other country except the U.S.A. The economy is terrible here, maybe you've noticed, and there is a tremendous amount of homelessness right here in our country.

There already is a lot of need here, and somehow I don't think the rest of the world is going to rush to provide aid to us the way we rushed to the sites of the tsunami and hurricanes all over.
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