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Monday, August 20, 2007
Mike Adams :: Townhall.com Columnist
Unprotected
by Mike Adams
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Welcome to UNC-Wilmington! My name is Dr. Adams and you are enrolled in CRJ 105 (Introduction to Criminal Justice). If you are in the wrong class, please get up and leave now – unless you’re majoring in Women’s Studies in which case you would be ostracized for leaving now. And, by the way, if you dislike bad puns you should also consider leaving this class.

Today I want to assure you that this year – freshman year for most of you – will be among the most important years of your life. Many of you will choose a major and start heading down a career path that will bring you deep fulfillment and personal satisfaction. But, unfortunately, some of you will ruin your lives before the year is over. Let me explain.

Almost every year at UNCW, I see a feminist professor or administrator (sometimes both) handing out condoms to students in the hopes that they will engage in “protected” sexual intercourse. The idea is twofold: 1) that a condom will prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease, and 2) that as long as no one gets pregnant or gets an STD all is well. Nothing could be further from the truth.

This box on my desk is not full of condoms. It is full of copies of the book “Unprotected” by Dr. Miriam Grossman, a psychiatrist who wrote about her experiences working at the student health center at UCLA. The book tells many stories you need to hear – stories you will never hear from the censorious feminists who run the Women’s Resource Center.

For example, Grossman tells the story of one college freshman who started having uncontrollable crying spells. Her depression became so severe that she sought help at the student health center. It did not take long for the therapy sessions to reveal that her problem was a “friendship with benefits” she established during the fall semester. She and her casual sex partner had agreed that they would just sleep together without dating. But she was beginning to long for something more.

Those espousing the radical feminist agenda at the university had told her that using condoms would protect her – this without any reference to the emotional consequences of casual sex. Such misguided advice is a consequence of a radical shift in feminist politics in recent years. After years of arguing truthfully that women and men are equal, feminists are now arguing falsely that women and men are identical. This is wreaking emotional havoc on young women on our college campuses who have become the pawns of intellectually dishonest feminists. They are the latest casualties in a cultural war whose principal battlefield is the American college campus.

The same problems that Grossman saw at UCLA are also prevalent on other campuses. For example, this summer, I got a letter from a young woman who was experiencing deep pain as a result of her decision to abandon the values she grew up with and to adopt the values of the “hook-up” culture, which is the dominant culture on most college campuses. She was a virgin in her 18th year. Now, in her 21st year, her number of sex partners has almost caught up with her chronological age. And she is now beginning to learn that there is no condom for the heart.

And men are also put at risk by those who would put political correctness above concern for student well-being. This is especially true for gay men.

If you are gay and engaging in anal sex, it is unlikely that you will ever see the words “anal sex” listed among the risk factors for contracting AIDS in any campus publication anywhere. Nor is it likely that you will ever hear these words mentioned by any professor discussing such risk factors in a relevant lecture. But because your health and well-being is important to me – despite my religious opposition to your lifestyle – I want you to get better information than you are likely to get on this or any other college campus. I’ll start by offering you a copy of Dr. Grossman’s book. If you need additional information, I’ll send you somewhere off campus to ensure that you will get accurate information.

Finally, today, in addition to encouraging you to, at the very least, avoid casual sex outside of a committed relationship, I want to encourage you to join a local church. I personally attend a church called Port City Church located less than a mile from UNCW. Please consider my invitation to come visit us any time.

Regardless of your religious affiliation, please don’t allow the official campus religion of moral relativism to invade your mind, your body, and your soul. It happened to me 24 years ago. I’m still recovering from it today.

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Mike Adams is a criminology professor at the University of North Carolina Wilmington and author of Feminists Say the Darndest Things: A Politically Incorrect Professor Confronts "Womyn" On Campus.
 
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And when they turn up pregnant they want to go back to being helpless little girls.

Now, here's a column I can get behind.
Some may object to this column on the basis that these students are taking a criminal law class, not biology or women's studies. But does that make his central point any less true, or any less important? Contrary to what many would have us believe, the vast majority of women do want children, do want stable marriages, and do want loving, consensual, reciprocal relationships with their significant other. It is a less a matter of being "overly-emotional stereotypes," but the fact that women carry the brunt of responsibility in a sexually-active relationship. Women are more likely to contract STDs than are men through vaginal intercourse; more likely to suffer long term effects of those diseases; and are the only ones with uteri. Yet the current culture attempts to force us into a mold saying that we should think about, act, and have sex like men. The truth is that the advent of birth control methods, including the pill and abortion, have actually lead to an increase in out-of-wedlock births; an increase in female college drop-outs; an increase in single mothers below the poverty line; and a decrease in marriages resulting from pregnancy, the ultimate design of which is intended to protect the mother from financial or social burden.

Feminists may bemoan the reduction in their younger ranks, but the ideas they've been fighting against all this time are the ones specifically designed to protect women and their families. And Mary C., for your information, there are plenty of women thinking about - and adopting - marriage in their 20s, who don't want to join the ranks of 40 year-old women desperate for children, only to realize that their previously held ideas of the feminist myth of "work now, children later" have robbed them of their child-bearing years. Calling something "old-fashioned" or "Victorian" doesn't make it any less valid; it just means that it's worked for a very, very long time.
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