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Wednesday, June 27, 2007
Michael Medved :: Townhall.com Columnist
The Jessie Davis case and dangers of out-of-wedlock parenthood
by Michael Medved
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The sad case of pregnant, murdered Jessie Davis and her married lover (and alleged killer) Bobbie Cutts threatens to dominate cable news for months to come – especially now that Paris Hilton’s out of jail and the justice system has established the paternity of Anna Nicole’s baby.

Unlike these other media obsessions, however, this horrifying story conveys some significant messages and should help to refocus attention on the nation’s most significant and menacing social problem: the unchecked epidemic and unquestioning acceptance of out of wedlock birth.

Jessie Davis died within days of giving birth to her second illegitimate child, both of them fathered by Mr. Cutts. This busy police officer also found time to produce progeny with his wife, and with another extracurricular involvement (who eventually complained to authorities of his threats and harassment). The tragic details of the Davis disappearance included the testimony of her stricken two year old, Blake, found alone in their home in a dirty diaper, giving police only three enigmatic (and heartbreaking statements): “Mommy crying,” “Mommy broke table,” and “Mommy in rug,”

Numerous commentators worry over the future of this devastated little boy but fail to make the obvious observation about his pre-murder situation: that it’s a shame whenever any child is left alone with an unmarried mother in an obviously dysfunctional situation.

We’ve become so reluctant to issue “judgmental” comments that we refuse to discuss the way this case highlights the individual tragedies and gigantic social cost when one-third of all new babies in America are born to unmarried women.

Two other recent stories further demonstrate the vulnerability of children placed into these unhappy circumstances. In Pittsburgh, five kids below the age of seven died in a fire when their moms (both of them unwed mothers) locked them in an apartment while they went out together to a bar. In Lake Stevens, Washington, a nineteen-old-mother inadvertently killed her four-month-old son by taping a pacifier into his mouth so he’d keep quiet and she could catch up on her sleep. When she awoke (at 11 a.m. the next day) she found the baby’s lifeless body, but hesitated for more than half-hour to consult her boyfriend before calling 911. She also told police of her previous policy of binding the child in a “baby straightjacket” – using a blanket to tie his hands and arms to stop his irritating squirming.

These extreme cases hardly represent all single mothers, many of whom most certainly work hard and love their children and try to instill decent values. But any two-parent family that’s struggled with child-rearing can only imagine the vastly greater challenges faced by an unattached mother (or father) with no partner to share the tasks of earning money and caring for the young.

While some children of never-marred mothers do indeed provide inspiring, against-the-odds success stories the overall-statistics provide a grim reminder of the destructive impact of out-of-wedlock birth. Children from fatherless households represent some 70% of the prison population, and remain similarly over-represented among high school drop-outs, drug users, gang members, and the poor. The notorious black-white gap in educational and economic achievement stems in large part from the collapse of marriage in much of the African American community. Among blacks, close to 70% of all new babies are born to unwed mothers—about three times the rate of illegitimate birth that prevails among whites and Asians. No serious scholar or community advocate doubts that reducing the devastating rate of out-of-wedlock births among African-Americans would help move us toward the goal of a more level playing field among our various ethnic communities. Continued...

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Michael Medved's daily syndicated radio talk show reaches one of the largest national audiences every weekday between 3 and 6 PM, Eastern Time. Michael Medved is the author of eleven books, including the bestsellers What Really Happened to the Class of '65?, Hollywood vs. America, Right Turns and, most recently, The Ten Big Lies About America.
 
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As I read this article and the comments, I wonder how many of you all have children yourselves. How can you observe a situation with no emotional attachment to a child? You can read books and facts all day but you’ll never know how it really feels to have your own. My children have taught me to walk around with my heart outside of my chest. I am a careful, nurturing mother who wouldn’t let anything stand in the way of raising my children in a Godly home and a walk of faith. It’s absurd to say that a child out of wedlock comes with a selfish mother who chose not to give them that “privilege.” Marriages in some cases are not “privileges.” Many marriages fail. Look how much emphasis is being placed on unwed mothers raising kids that are more likely to be in emotional distress. What about married couples who divorced early or at some point or another? That can ruin a family quicker than never being married to begin with. Married or not, the child is without full attention of one parent or the other if divorce is involved. As a single mother, I believe I nurture my children better than many married couples do. My children are happy, have much love from everyone, and are no different than a child born into a marriage. Too many marriages have the opportunity to have children and they are undeserving. They abuse or neglect them. So for all of you “Christians” who speak of Jessie Davis being unwed with a 2 year old and one on the way, that doesn’t justify the murder nor will it ever. It’s irrelevant to what time it is in china. It’s pathetic to watch you all talk about welfare and government help to single mothers’ because I know I DO NOT have it and I do everything in the world for my children. So much pressure and weight is placed on WOMEN but have you lost all value in your fellow men. MOST women who are no longer with their “significant other” have custody of the children. What happened to the men? Since when have men taken over the responsibility of the children? It’s all about unwed mothers this and that but you never hear about the men after the divorce. They are the ones that contributed to enable this child to be here today but no emphasis is placed on them. “Let those without sin cast the first stone.” Let that be known. But as you sit here and put mothers in a spot light, you should be taking a look at your own problems b/c I’m sure you could find some surfacing. This was a tragic ending to Jessie Davis and I’m sure her family in such a “Christian” society would appreciate all the positive perspectives instead of voicing your pessimistic one. I’ll be praying for the most of you b/c I think you could use some prayer.

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