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Wednesday, February 08, 2006
Megan Basham :: Townhall.com Columnist
Preference and Prejudice
by Megan Basham
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“It’s a preference not a prejudice.”

So says Kenya (Sanaa Lathan), a black accountant in her early thirties to Brian (Simon Baker), a white landscape architect of roughly the same age about her decision not to date him.

To Kenya, ruling out a potential boyfriend on the basis of race seems a responsible and justified position to take. Reflected back in Brian’s eyes, we see another point of view--what would it be called if he held a similar “preference”?

It is in these subtle moments that Something New, the feature debut from director Sanaa Hamri, lives up to its name. It manages to generate real romantic humor in the midst of social conflict without sacrificing one in service to the other.

According to the film’s statistics, Kenya is one of the 42.2 percent of black women that have never married. Like her highly-educated, professionally-successful girlfriends, she bemoans her inability to find an IBM (ideal black man). A short commiseration with her pals on Valentine ’s Day has them all committing to “let go and let flow.” That is, to relinquish their long-cherished dreams of what their perfect mates look like and open themselves up to other kinds of men.

For one woman, this means dating outside her economic class; for another it means seeing a soon-to-be divorced father. For Kenya, it means accepting a co-worker’s offer to set her up on a blind date.

However, her new “let flow” state of mind stops short when her date turns out to be white. And that’s not the only shade that has Kenya seeing red. Brian is also borderline blue-collar. He may run his own small business, but he does it working with his hands…in the dirt, neither of which adds up to the upper-middle class future Kenya and her family have imagined for her.

Instead she hires him to transform her new backyard, giving Brian the opportunity to surreptitiously cultivate her heart. Continued...

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Megan Basham is the author of Beside Every Successful Man: A Woman's Guide To Having It All

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