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Sunday, November 04, 2007
Ken Connor :: Townhall.com Columnist
How Firm a Foundation?
by Ken Connor
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And everyone who hears these words of Mine, and does not act upon them, will be like a foolish man, who built his house upon the sand. And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and burst against that house; and it fell and great was its fall. (Matt. 7:26-27 NASB)

A structure is only as strong as its foundation. If the foundation is sound, chances are the structure will be able to weather most any storm. But if the foundation is not secure, even the slightest stress can produce serious damage.

The family unit is the foundation of civilization. Healthy families are the basis of a strong and stable society. As the family goes, so goes the nation. No society can continue to flourish if its families are weak. A close examination of the state of America's families, therefore, should concern all who aspire to see our country remain strong and healthy.

Marriage and Divorce

The marital unit is the foundation of the family, but any honest observer must acknowledge that the institution of marriage is in trouble in America. The current divorce rate is almost double the divorce rate in 1960. For every two couples who get married today, another couple gets divorced. The probability of a first marriage ending in separation or divorce within ten years is 33%. That probability increases to 43% if you use a 15 year time frame. The prevalence of no-fault divorce laws has made the covenant of marriage the easiest of all contracts to break. Getting out of marriage is the easy part, but there is nothing easy about the consequences of the break-up.

Cohabitation

Disillusioned by what they see happening to their parents' marriages, more and more young people are cohabiting without the benefit of marriage. The marriage rate has decreased by approximately 50% since 1970. It's now lower than it has ever been. The number of couples living together without marrying has increased more than tenfold since 1960. Fifty percent of all first marriages are now preceded by cohabitation (Larry Bumpass and Hsien-Hen Lu, "Trends in Cohabitation and Implications for Children's Family Contexts in the U.S.," Population Studies 54 (2000): 29-41). Between 1990 and 2005, cohabitation in the United States increased a whopping 70%!

About half of cohabiting couples ages 25-34 have children in their households. That does not augur well for the children or the country. Children of cohabitants are more likely to have emotional and behavioral problems and experience greater education difficulties. They are also more likely to be economically disadvantaged.

Illegitimacy

In light of the high rates of cohabitation, it should come as no surprise that the rate of illegitimacy in America has skyrocketed. Today in the U.S., 37% of all children are born out of wedlock. In 2005, 1.5 million children were born to unmarried women. While the birth rate among married women has decreased by 43% since 1960, it has doubled among unmarried women.

The future for children in single parent families is often dim. Adolescents from single parent families are twice as likely to drop out of school and to have an out of wedlock birth before age twenty. Children living with a single mother are six times more likely to live in poverty than children in an intact family.

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Ken Connor is Chairman of the Center for a Just Society in Washington, DC.
 
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Just so you are aware, I have taken marriage counseling before getting married, and even though my husband only attended two? of three sessions for marriage, the pastor did ask us both about our backgrounds. There are problems when people who are engaged don't seek to get the right kind of marriage counsel before they commit their lives together. Those who do have a better opportunity to know how to handle things when there are problems. The things that my family has taught me, is make sure that you don't allow for a faulty foundation before you get started. Those cracks deal with 'addictions, uncontrolled, or not dealt with', among other factors, as in, what would be a cause for a separation or divorce? Take these to heart, and you should have a healthy foundation to build on. So making sure your 'mate' or potential mate, has a solid faith in GOD, is walking with HIM, and doing His will, should be the basis on which you have started your marriage. Making sure that your own walk of faith is strong as well. Prayer together, and obedience to God are crucial to keeping one's marriage solid. Slipping into the way of 'sin' is very easy to do, and one must take means to insure that you don't slip. Daily Bible Study is also crucial. Without these guards, one's marriage, is subject to leaks. These can only be combatted, by integrity of spirit, and body. Prayer, and not giving in to the temptations of the world also are worthy of obedience to God.

Only Man Can Kill The True Law

Anyone who is literate enough to comprehend the word of God can see how society is falling apart from not following the Ten Commandments and God’s word. Making excuses to conform to the actions of the non-believers only shows one to be a fool.

It is real simple to understand when you stand back and observe how broken families affect how neighborhoods fall, cities become high crime statistics, politicians throw money instead of working to rebuild values in society and eventually, you have a country that follows every other nation that has fallen from the same mistakes.

God’s word and his principles for a sound society do not change or lose their truths. Only people can change and ignore what history has shown to work until man corrupts it.
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