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Monday, July 02, 2007
Jason Mattera :: Townhall.com Columnist
Ten Habits of Decidedly Defective People
by Jason Mattera
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As you’ll see, Doug doesn’t pull punches. Doug gives you a good laugh, makes you feel like a wuss when appropriate and gets you on a purpose-bound track. Ten Habits of Decidedly Defective People is a blistering slap in the face to those who squander their talents. Doug assembles time-tested and clear ways to mess up your life and approach loser status.

Here’s where Doug’s hilarity and ingenuity manifests. Walk into a Barnes & Noble, Borders or even your local 7-11 and you’ll have your pick of self-help books. A majority of these self-help books portray an inaccurate blueprint for life, usually tattering along the lines of thinking happy or positive thoughts as a way to self and spiritual actualization. Very little, if anything, is said about the importance of discipline and focus. What makes this book compelling is its contrarian approach to overcoming complacency and perpetual immaturity. Ten Habits of Decidedly Defective People will shame you into changing slothfulness to productivity.

Whether you like it or not, there is a war being waged on traditional values, strong work ethics and individual empowerment. This war is carried out by those who preach, ad nauseam, a message of victimization and dependency. That’s why there is an overabundance of books that promise to bring people fulfillment in life, but never deliver on that promise.

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Spoil your kids, spoil your country
It all starts at home, folks. When you bring up your GrabbyBaby to believe that the world exists solely to serve her, and that being forced to wait .000006 seconds for anything she wants is TORTURE and CHILD ABUSE .... and to deny her the right to do anything she wants to do is ditto .... and that she is not responsible for the results of anything she may do ... millions of these little raindrops add up to the giant flood of screaming, crying, passive-aggressive citizens who sit on the toilet and scream for the government to send somebody to wipe their tushies.

Want to know how to reverse this tide? Take a good look around your home and see if you can make any refinements to the way you are bringing up your kiddies.

There is an old saying that "No raindrop blames itself for the flood." I believe that no GrabbyMommie blames either herself or the product of her self-centred insistence on bringing herself and her children to the front of the line regardless either.

I have a complementary article
"This war is carried out by those who preach, ad nauseam, a message of victimization and dependency."

For a deeper discussion on this particular issue, stop by my blog and check out my essay "Some Thoughts on Victimhood". It's worth a minute of your time.

http://heartlandpatriot.townhall.com/g/82e64a82-01fe-425f-b918-a112b1820fdc

I confess
I was dirt poor as a child.We had 1 B&W tv with 3 stations and an outhouse to do our business in.We went to the spring for water to heat for baths with no running water in the house.In a 2 bedroom house, the 4 of us kids shared 1 bedroom.In the summer we worked hard in the garden,growing and canning what we could for the winter.We killed hogs in the winter and made our own sausage and cured hams and sold what we could to offset feed prices.We used a horse and plow til we could afford a tiller.
I had a strong work ethic and was determined to be a success in life.I spent 4 yrs in the Navy from age 17-21 and used my G.I. Bill money wisely.I got married,had 3 kids and became successful in my career and retired by age 48.
I made sure my kids had everything I didnt as a child.I showed them love I never got as a child and tried to make their dream come true.BUT...
with my lax disipline and a little help from todays culture of "I want it yesterday and I'll do that tomorrow" attitude,my plan didn't work out like I thought.My children adore me and their mom but have not followed my Philosophy of hard work and money management.Now,I have a 25 year old and a 20 yr. old still living at home and only my middle son has seen the light,got a good education,and is prosperous.Maybe, if I keep at the other 2, they will one day realize what I started,too late unfortunately,to teach them about what it takes to succeed and become independent.I sometimes feel if they had had a hard life like me,they would have learned what I did earlier.I've made some mistakes raising my kids but then I've never had to bail them out of jail either.All I can do now is keep pressing them to take responsibility for their own future and hope it works out.

carthageVSgore
Wow -- it's rare to see someone speak with rueful truth about these things.

One thing I think my folks did right is levy requirements on their five kids, and keep goodies, without apology, to a minimum. From the time I (the oldest) was eight, my parents never had to do the dinner dishes again until my youngest sister moved out. That was the kids' responsibility. Mowing, raking, weeding the yard; keeping our bedrooms clean; cleaning the rest of the house; doing our own laundry; babysitting our younger sisters; driving the younger ones to activities; running errands for Mom; gassing up the car if we expected to use it for our individual wants. An absolute limit of six hours of TV per week. Period, no exceptions. Really hard during football season! Many of today's parents would call making kids do those things child abuse.

I didn't qualify for financial aid for college because by then, my parents were too well-off. A lot of parents couldn't have made the decision to require me to make my own way through college, if I wanted it badly enough. (That's what Dad had done, when he went to college. And granted, it's way more expensive today, even in constant dollars, than it was in the late 1970s.) But that's the decision my parents made. So I got academic scholarships where I could, and worked the entire four years to pay the rest.

At 47, I appreciate the way they raised me, because I've never once been fearful that I couldn't "make it." Diligence, focus, responsibility, self-reliance, doing chores because they're part of life -- not some terrible imposition on your free time -- these qualities instilled and required by my parents have served me better than any amount of luxury could have.

I see 12-year-olds today who have a bunch of stuff I didn't have until I was 35, and that I had to pay for all of myself. Wouldn't trade even one day with them. Being taught to swim, and staying afloat yourself, is way better than being towed in comfort in your parents' life raft for the rest of your life.

If the way it's going to be is...
watching these overblown 'flash' ads when I come to Townhall, then having to read about the products advertised by over-fawning, adoring, effiminate fans posing as writers, I'll REALLY need to find another source for all of my daily punditry.

Do a Google search for 'Hosts file' to help elimate some of these huge ads here.

Indulgent parents make lazy kids.
I agree with what is being said.
I believe in supplying the essentials.
Anything else THEY can work and pay for it.
I am concerned with todays 'I WANT IT NOW" youths.

Same here
We are currently working to bring Mama and Daddy back to live among us in New York. We are doing this because they brought us up to believe that family do this sort of thing for one another and that there isn't anything we can't do when we put our heads and our backs into it.

Across the lawn is a son with the power of attorney for his 94 year old uncle who suffers from Alzeimers and can barely get out of his easy chair alone, who insists that MY mother can look after him so he does not have to go to a home -- and HIS mother who called this same son two days after he had chemotherapy and told him to come and install a grab rail in her bathtub.

Guess which family contained kids who grew up with an easy ride?

Oops, my bad
I assumed this story was about Bush.
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