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Sunday, September 28, 2008
Jackie Gingrich Cushman :: Townhall.com Columnist
Trying to Do My Best
by Jackie Gingrich Cushman
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Three weeks ago, my mother brought me two small jewelry boxes from home filled with “treasures” from my childhood.  The necklaces, bracelets and pins brought back memories.  There were two ballerinas, one cross, and one butterfly necklace.  Included in the treasures were my Brownie and my Girl Scout pins, still in one piece and working, if a little dull and tarnished. 

That same week, my eight year old daughter told me, “Mommy, I want to be a Brownie.”  It seemed like such a simple request.  After all, there are a few Brownie troops in the school, certainly I could just call around and find a troop for her to join.  After a few calls and conversations, I found out that all the troops were full, except for one that was disbanding. Before I knew it, I had agreed to be a co-leader, the troop was reforming and adding a few girls.

My initial reason for agreeing to co-lead was to make my daughter happy: she wants to be in Brownies; this is what it takes.  Soon, I discovered that this would be a learning journey for me as well.  After registration forms were filled out, the next step was purchasing a uniform for her and books for both of us.  Once everything was home, I began to go through the material, refreshing my knowledge of Brownies and Girl Scouts (it has been quite a while since I was one).  The more I read, the more excited I became about the adventure that we were about to begin. 

The mission of Girl Scouts is to build girls of courage, confidence and character to make the world a better place.  Attending the service unit meeting with dozens of other troop leaders, I realized how many women in our local community were involved in the same mission of building girls of courage, confidence and character.  

Our troop began the year with an induction ceremony for the new Brownies during which they held lit candles while reciting the Girl Scout Promise and the Girl Scout Law.

The Girl Scout Promise

On my honor, I will try:
     To serve God and my country,
     To help people at all times,
     And to live by the Girl Scout Law.

The Girl Scout Law

I will do my best to be
     honest and fair,
     friendly and helpful,
     considerate and caring,
     courageous and strong, and
     responsible for what I say and do,
and to
     respect myself and others,
     respect authority,
     use resources wisely,
     make the world a better place, and
     be a sister to every Girl Scout.

The Promise and Law create a high expectation of behavior, but, knowing that perfection is an unattainable goal, start with words that underscore the fact that we will fail on occasion. The promise states, “On my honor, I will try,” and the law begins, “I will do my best to be...”

It is important to remember that we all fail on occasion and make mistakes.  Trying and doing our best does not equate to being perfect, but rather with picking ourselves up after a mistake, learning and moving forward. 

How did Girls Scouts begin?  Through the efforts of one woman.  Juliette “Daisy” Gordon Low began the Girl Scouts on March 12, 1912 with a local Girl Scout meeting in Savannah, Georgia. Today, there are almost a million Girls Scout volunteers, and 2.7 million girl members. Since its inception, more than 50 million American women have participated in Girl Scouts.

It going to be a fun year, learning and growing with the girls, and I know that my time invested in this will more than pay off in the long run.  While I am sure that I will forget things, become overwhelmed and possibly even lose my temper, I know that today, more than ever, we need girls of courage, confidence and character. 

All over our community, city and nation, adults are involved in the time-consuming, but important work of building boys and girls of courage, confidence and character through in-school and after-school activities.  I am glad to be able to do my small part.  Knowing that along the way, while I am helping others, that I will be learning and growing, and will be reminded of the important promises and values in life.

I look forward to the day I visit my daughter, and carry a box of childhood treasures to her, including her Brownie pin.

On my honor, I will try, to do my best.  A motto we should all say every day.

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About The Author
Jackie Cushman is a freelance writer who lives in Atlanta, Georgia. Her column also runs later in the week in the Northside Neighbor.
 
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Girl and Boys scouts
Having been in Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts as a kid, whenever I see a fundraiser for any scout org. I always pitch in. They are one of the few good things left in life and this country, as far as I am concerned. Afew weeks ago a 12 year old boy, whose father was from india, was manning a booth at a grocery store, and was obviously quite frightened at the prospect of pitching his product to total strangers. He never said a word to me as I said to him that the boy scouts are great and I would love to buy some popcorn to support the scouts. After the transaction the father appeared and thanked me and I went on my business.
A note of irony here: I quit the Boy Scouts around 1967 because my father was kicked out for saying that within our lifetimes, we would be paying more that $3 agallon for gas(he was a petroleum geologist for Chevron Oil at the time). They thought he was a nut!
Good luck in your endeavour, you will be a great influence on the girls lives. Just be yourself, and don't stress.

Thank-you for being a Girl Scout Leader!
For everyone else reading this, you do not have to have a daughter in Girl Scouts to be a Girl Scout Leader.

And as to all the controversies and "adult" problems; for the majority of the membership, their experience is only the Troop they are members of, and some of the other troops in their communities.

There are some guidelines, and most of them are in a publication titled "Safety-Wise." We also have a few rules, and those are in the Blue Book of Basic Documents. Those two publications, and an age level handbook are really all you need, that, at least two adults that wish to partner and guide, and of course the girls!

Leaders and other volunteers (like Trainers, and Service Unit Chairs) are not paid in anything but the "Thank-yous" of the girls they mentor into womanhood.

Role models to look for
It does bring back memories of scout days and most importantly that idea of how I was going to look and act when I became an adult- something I always thought about during my childhood. I remember the importance of knowing at least one adult woman who I could look to for ideas on what I were to strive for- copying after her was important- her handwriting- her little subtle actions- the walk and all around common facial expressions and the like. As children we spend a huge amount of time imagining- and this is what builds our character- the deciphering of what we like and dislike in people so we can follow what we would like to be as well.
One very impressionable gal that I see today is
Sarah Palin, she would have been that exact role model I would have been looking for when I was 7 years old, I probably would have not fought so heavily about wearing my first pair of glasses if I could have gotten a pair similar to hers.LOL
Yes, a little girls most favorite past time is fantazing about what kind of woman she will be when she grows up and how she will contribute to society as a whole through her nurturing and caring that she had learned to do by following an adult womans actions. Being that leader you will have girls all trying to copy your every move and that will be the badge they will try to wear most honorably.

Me, Me, Me
See what I did. Another me story with most of the space lifted from the Girl Scouts. Girl Scouts = good. Boy scouts = bad - they get kicked out of public places, schools, and a few churches. Will ACORN be pushing the scouts after getting another few million from the gov'mint as part of the bailout? They may be running out of my money they use to sign up voters that vote for Demos and Hussien Obama.

Girl Scouts
I stopped being a girl scout when they stopped emphasizing skills in self-control and woodsy lore and started emphsizing make-up and dating. Perhaps that was an anomoly; perhaps it has gone back to the real needs of girls to be self-sufficient, kind and busy with thoughts of others rather than of self.

Personally I would not emphasize *try to do my best* but rather that *I WILL do my best* I go along with Yoda: Do or Do Not: There Is No Try.

It's the gay agenda to end scouting
but here is the web address that explains how the Dems. got us into this financial trouble with their Comm. Redevel. Acts in 1977 (Carter) and 1977, under Clinton--except Clinton has admitted they pushed loose lending too far. (Is he trying to help Mac?)

http://www.youtube.com/watch/?v=H5tZc8oH-o

Seeing is believing.

TeeHall
Your rant is........well, it's a rant. Why don't you tell us what is really bothering you?

A real girl scout

I enjoyed giving jewlery to my Georgous Sweetie. Well maybe "giving" is not the right word.

I established a payment plan that relied on her earning each and every piece of the item. So you can imagine how I enjoyed the 18K gold ring and bracelet with a total of 84 emeralds. In dollars they cost only $200 in Florence Italy in 1970, 15 years ago the Jewler said $6 to 8,000. But wow, did I ever enjoy each and every payment.

For Sweetie's 50th birthday I gave her 50 tiny pieces of gold, and 50 small emeralds, in a glass vial, held by a chain.

For her 70th birthday I had a necklace with 70 stones made especially for her.

Well the payment schedule slowed down, but a payment was never missed.

Trying to Do My Best
Scouting is great stuff for the young ones growing up! The grownups controlling the important institutions of our country would do well to remember values transmitted in Scouting like integrity, honesty, truth, and loyalty. I’m very tired of all this rampant Machiavellian behavior!

on my honor, i will try
this is something we never forget. at seventy five i felt a nudge when i read it. to remember that giving it our best is where its at. you are so lucky and your daughter is . your mother just gave us all a treasure in those little boxes. i enjoyed sharing it with you. i will read your column more often to see what gifts you share. xo nita

THANK YOU
For keeping the tradition alive. I was a Brownie and Girl Scout (1950's & 60's) until my Sophomore year.

The memories are wonderful - overnight camping, cooking, sewing lessons, etc. etc.

Being a Girl Scout prepared me for real life - honesty, respect for everyone, being honorable, helping community, love of God and Country and being prepared. (Being in Calif I have an earthquake kit in my house, car & at work - hate those shakes).

I also still have my Brownie & Girl Scout pins.

Please, continue to teach our young girls to be good citizens.

Girl Scouts

Congatulations. The world needs more mothers like you. I just wish you had pointed out Juliette Low had the first girl scouts in the U.S., otherwise it might be assumed it was the first troop anywhere.

My late wife and I were active in Girl Guides and Boy Scouts as participants and leaders for many years.

One of out highlights was entertaining a group of Girl Scouts from Memphis, Tenn., about 1960 or 61. We took them to see Niagara Falls, and found them amazed that blacks (not their word) wouldn't automatically move off the sidewalk to make way for whites, and it was the first time they had ever seen well-dressed blacks.

We later hosted a campout for girls from East Patterson, NJ, and they reciprocated by inviting us down there. Great exchange.

I had to register on here by saying St. Catharines was in New York. It wouldn't accept Canadians.

Cheers and a salute to you.

Merv
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