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Tuesday, January 16, 2007
Dennis Prager :: Townhall.com Columnist
Thoughts On My Vacation
by Dennis Prager
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I am writing this week's column from Northern Australia and Papua New Guinea where I have been on a cruise ship lecturing to 75 listeners of my national radio show.

Some thoughts:

I have traveled outside of North America at least once a year for nearly 40 years. These travels have taken me to some 82 countries (yes, I admit to keeping count) and have taught me more about life than anything I learned up through Ivy League graduate school.

That is why I so strongly advocate that high school graduates not go straight to college, but take a year to do anything except attend school. Travel -- especially when done alone -- can confer much more wisdom than college.

This is my 12th cruise. Thanks to these trips with my listeners, I have cruised from Antarctica to the Baltic, from Indonesia to Peru. It has become by far my favorite way to travel. Having your hotel take you from city to city is almost too good to be true. Sometimes, as in the case of my visit to the eastern tip of Papua New Guinea, there is no other way to get to a place, let alone in luxury.

Why have I never met one American (outside of a handful of entertainers) working on a cruise ship? I have met young people from almost every country in the world working on cruise ships -- except Americans. Do young Americans not know about this unique way to see the world and interact with peers from around the globe? I wish I knew the answer. I would suggest to any person in his or her 20s to spend a year working on a cruise ship. It is an incomparable experience.

Whenever I go abroad I am struck at how superior the international editions of Time and Newsweek are to their American editions. This superiority provides a clear illustration of the American media's dumbing down of almost everything they touch. The American editions of Time and Newsweek are largely infotainment.

I have visited some of the world's poorest countries, written a book on happiness and lectured on happiness around the world. Once again, on this visit to a remote part of New Guinea, where I saw few homes with electricity and where people live essentially on the food they grow and sell, I am reaffirmed in my conviction that being poor is no more a guarantor of unhappiness than wealth is a guarantor of happiness.

In this extremely impoverished area of New Guinea, there was no begging whatsoever, and the people were among the friendliest and happiest I have ever encountered. What accounts for these facts? Why is one national or tribal or ethnic or religious group largely happy and another largely sullen?

My waitress in Townsville, northeast Australia, was a charming young French woman studying zoology at the local university. I asked whom she would vote for in the upcoming French elections. She responded that she knew absolutely nothing about politics and would, if she were back home, vote for the Greens. Why? "Because they are a small party and they are for the environment."

She confirmed my longstanding belief that while there are many people on the Left who know history and think about social issues, the default position for those who know little history or think little about social issues is with the Left. All you need do is care for the poor or care about the environment.

This is my 5th visit to Australia, and once again I am struck by the remarkable friendliness of Australians. It seems to hold true for the many Asian immigrants I met, as well. If so, we need to learn how Australia succeeds in passing its best values to immigrants from other cultures.

Finally, I followed no news events for 10 days. As a radio talk-show host and columnist, that is somewhat risky. But, I believe, worth it. I return with a clearer mind and a lighter heart. Vacations are not luxuries. They are necessities.

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Dennis Prager is a radio show host, contributing columnist for Townhall.com, and author of 4 books including Happiness Is a Serious Problem: A Human Nature Repair Manual.
 
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Heck
I imagine Dennis is glad to hear that.

Dennis- I thought that it would be fun
to do exactly what you suggested.

I work in a service industry that is often employed on cruise ships, and while I was taking classes for this career, I often fantasized about seeing the world in this manner.

Then I heard from more than one source: you stay in a closet-sized room that you have to share, and are not allowed to mingle socially with the passangers.

AND you have to sell, sell, sell products that the ship brings for that purpose. In fact, it is a comission job, and you are expected to meet quotas. They also apparently work you like a dog.

If someone is good at sales, it could be a good opportunity, but if you despise selling as I do, and would rather serve people than sell them a lot of stuff they don't need, then it isn't so great.

Why do people from other countries work on cruise ships?

You got me.

Answer.
Because, for the last three generations of ALL living in the USA, it is like living on a cruise ship -- as a passenger.

Agree
Every young adult should take a year off of college and travel to other countries. I traveled through Europe in my early twenties and it defintely opened my eyes. I learned a lot about myself, my strengths and weaknesses, but more importantly, about other cultures and ways of living. America is a big place, but the world is bigger.

I would also ask this question, Mr. Prager, "Why don't we see more young Europeans traveling (or working) in America"? It would be an eye-opening experience also for them.

I did it -- but wouldn't do it today
I too recommend not going to college until you know what you want to do with your life -- theee days when college is nothing but a trade school, an "education" is easier to obtain on the outside than on the inside. But I don't recommend travelling alone in today's world. Most countries are seriously dangerous today and a person travelling alone is apt to disappear and, if ever found, will be a mangled corpse.

I took a round-the-world cruise in 1969 as a gift from my uncle who thought it was my last chance to get a husband (I don't recommend cruising for a husband as women typically outnumber men 5:1). It was an eye-opener for this young American who had believed before that, that every country in the world is like America -- and found out that no country in the world is.

As for finding hard-working poor people living with the bare necessities and happy about it, I spent a summer living and working in Appalachia (Tennessee USA) and found the same thing he went all the way to New Guinea to discover. I was the only volunteer they'd ever had who lived in the community -- and I am firmly convinced that the only way to actually learn about people is to live with them. That's why I'm living here in Kanukistan now.

In a time when people my age can expect to live another 30 years, I really can't see why anybody would rush through Trade School/College and trap him or herself in some labour-intensive job until he's too exhausted to enjoy himself and has ruined his health. Just find a way to see the world until you're 30 and then go to work. If you actually learn anything while you're travelling and working in the country, so much the better.

dullhammer
LOLOLOLOL. Thanks for the chuckle this morning.

Prager takes a break...
Well, I never thought I'd write this but here is a column by Dennis Prager that I can agree with - at least in parts. For us Brits (and Aussies, Kiwis and South Africans) taking a year out to travel is very common, and I'm not aware of anyone who had any parental resistance to it. I travelled the world when I was 19/20, and although it's a long time ago now it was something I wouldn't swap for anything. I started university when I was 21; by then I knew what I wanted to do and why I was there, rather than it being the "done" thing. Did much better as a result. What are the stats on Americans? 80 per cent don't own a passport? Something like that. A great shame because there's a whole world of different cultures to experience and see. However, Prager has to go and ruin it with his little lecture on the feeble-mindedness of young left wingers. There are an equally high number of bone-headed young right wingers who decide their political allegiance based on the same flimsy reasoning. AduiR10 above says that the rest of the world is a dangerous place - well, indeed it is but no more so than the US. Travelling alone anywhere requires a great deal of thought, planning and personal discipline, but that applies everywhere.

Expenses included!
Well to have traveled outside of the North American continent every year for nearly the last 40 years, on top of that Ivy League graduate education; I can certainly understand Prager's recommendation to 'take a year to do anything except attend school.'

I knew there had to be a punchline coming . . .

Sure enough, 'the default position for those who know little history or think little about social issues is with the Left. All you need do is care for the poor or care about the environment.'

Indeed. Who has time to care for the poor or environment, when one is so busy going to an Ivy League school, traveling around the world, and talking on the radio?

Sure is easy to support an endless GWOT from the comfort of those VIP seats, say how 'happy' poor people who live not in the land of money is god (the USA) are, while being economically 'subsidized' by GE and Republican donors . . .

'All the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need.'

O, that is right, Prager does not recognize that portion of Scripture as binding unto him, material prosperity is a reward and Christ was lying when he said, ‘Indeed, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for the rich to enter the kingdom of God.’

Yet, I suppose this is just another one of those incompatibilities between the Old Law of murderous militancy and the New Law of pacifistic love even unto death. The Old Law of Temple animal sacrifices and the New Law of Christ’s sacrifice for the salvation of humankind; an eye for an eye versus turning one’s cheek . . .

I thought Abraham paid for his slaves’ circumcision not made us pay . . .

Peace

catattack: eye-opening experience
catattack writes: Tuesday, January, 16, 2007 5:02 AM "...I would also ask this question, Mr. Prager, "Why don't we see more young Europeans traveling (or working) in America"? It would be an eye-opening experience also for them."
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Dear Cat,

Perhaps you should travel to Southern California, and specifically to Los Angeles, where you will have trouble finding anyone who was born here. People from other countries not only are visiting, they have moved here and taken over.

I live in an area dominated by an ethnic group, who I can best describe as "Eurasian." They run everything. All the stores, all the repair shops, the hospitals, and the City Government.

I feel like I already live in a forign country.

If I get tired of their culture, I drive over the hill, where in 15 minutes I can experience the culture of Mexico, right in my own backyard.

If I want to experience American culture, I have to drive much further.

If you don't see any forigners where you live, please let me know where it is, because I may want to move there.

Critical Bill

Critical Bill writes:

> Prager has to go and ruin it with his little lecture on the
> feeble-mindedness of young left wingers.

"Ruin" it? What did you expect? Heaven forfend that an avowedly
right-wing pundit express any right-wing views on a right-wing
Web site...


> There are an equally high number of bone-headed young right
> wingers who decide their political allegiance based on the
> same flimsy reasoning.

There are? And you know this...how, exactly? Speaking of flimsy
reasoning...

I've noticed that this sort of reflexive "B-but YOU do it too!"
response is common from leftists when they're confronted with
a categorical statement about any group of people, but especially
when said group of people is their own. I call it "argument by
symmetry." (A corollary is "argument by universality: "Oh,
EVERYBODY does that!" If everyone is guilty, then no one is
guilty. Hence, no unpleasant value judgments need be made.)

My hypothesis is that this is the result of two things: leftists'
instinctive resistance to anything even remotely akin to stereo-
typing, and the perpetual intellectual adolescence that impels them
to constantly be on the prowl for hypocrisy.


> AduiR10 above says that the rest of the world is a dangerous
> place - well, indeed it is but no more so than the US.

Oh, is that so? The most primitive, backward, flyblown Third World
stinkhole is no more dangerous than America is? Riiiiight. I have
a book recommendation I'd like to make to you: "The World's Most
Dangerous Places," by Robert Young Pelton. Seriously; it's a fas-
cinating (and edifying) read. Here's the Amazon.com link:
http://tinyurl.com/yxwxh2 . Used copies are available.

Anyway -- you're doing it AGAIN: reflexive argument by symmetry.
"Places other than America are [X], therefore America is [X], too."

To hear you liberals talk, one would think that all people were the
same and all countries were the same. Since that obviously isn't the
case, a thinking person would engage in some introspection and revisit
his instinct to claim that they were.

Then again, if one were a thinking person, one wouldn't be a liberal,
would one? Conservatives think; liberals EMOTE. That's why liberals
are often described as "knee-jerk" and "bleeding-heart" liberals. An
it's why so many emotive people are drawn to liberal causes like social
justice and environmentalism. (Anyone who doesn't think that environ-
mentalism is a cause that's based more on emotion than on reason should
try speaking out against it to an audience of liberals sometime, and
take note of how quickly his listeners/readers become nasty and abusive.)



-CB-


Beryll
I know that there are an equally high number of bone-headed young right wingers because I grew up among them. I can assure you that there weren't many left wingers at the private school in England that I went to. And no, I didn't expect anything else from Prager, I don't, I jut found myself thinking "wow, something readable from Prager" until I got to that part. He can't help himself, but as you rightly say why should he. As for what I said about the rest of the world, well, it wasn't intended to mean that young people should head off to spend a week in Chechnya or Iraq. I meant most of the world; you're in trouble if you walk into the wrong part of Lima, just as you are if you walk into the wrong part of LA. Most of the world is relatively safe - your response indicates that you think young people should never leave the States! well, if that's what you think fine but I'm glad you never gave me any travel advice. I've been to a small handful of third world countries and always had a wonderful time.

Taking a year off from school
I took a year off from school between high school and college. It was the most important year of my life. (My mother always said she wished she'd held me back in kindergarten, so . . . there you go, Mom.) It was during that time I learned to swim. Yup. That involved a real conversion experience, along with immersion. I learned to play the piano (again; I'd quit after one year around age 10). I’d pick the lock in the Baptist church and go play the baby grand. (It was “my” home church.) Got my first *real* job in a tannery, and also got fired. Traveled to Florida (from Maine) with my grandmother and her brother and wife and flew back after a couple of months. (First jet flight.) Might as well have traveled to the moon things were so different there. Got my first good job paining houses. Bought my first car. And headed for college that fall.

But none of those things are what made it the most important year of my life. It was that year, 1972-73, that I admitted to God that I did not believe in him. I did this as a confession, not as an accusation. I had outgrown my childhood faith and was found hollow inside.

But God was there listening to that confession. And I believe he inspired me to finish my very brief and strange period of atheism with a prayer that was way beyond my own wisdom. I simply prayed: “But God, if you’re really there, this is no problem for you. Why don’t you give me what it takes for me to believe in you?” That was in June of 1972. No lightning. No thundering voice. But I knew I had prayed an honest and right thing and felt confident in leaving the burden with God.

It was not too long after that a youth group opened up and I attended. I started reading the Bible for the first *real* time, in one of those versions I could actually understand. I also was shocked to find out that the pastor leading the youth group could give some good answers to questions I had. Somewhere during that time I came to understand what the “Gospel” is. Jesus died for my sin. And rose on the third day, according to the scriptures. And all I, or anyone, need do is believe in that Person and my sin will be forgiven. I will no longer be a stranger to a far off God. I believed this almost as soon as I heard it. And started praying constantly to God. But I did not make it public. I pretended, out of a strange pride, to have believed this all along. But I had not even understood it. Let alone believed it.

As time went on though, I became more honest with myself and with God and others. I grew. So much so I think it scared my parents and others who thought I’d gone off the deep end or something. But they loved me, and knew enough to be patient. It was like a light had been turned on in my heart and mind. I could see things I could not see before. I could “see” the reality of God and his love— for me!

Around Easter time of 1973, getting back from Florida, I finally made my faith completely open and public as it should be. I got baptized. Prior to that I had been very up and down in my sense of where I stood with Jesus. But subsequent to baptism, I have never allowed myself or anyone to question my right standing with God through Christ. Been plenty of ups and downs, but of a different nature.

Some people have a day or even an hour of their conversion to Christ. For me, though, thick and slow as I can be, it was more like I had a year of conversion. And it being a year off from school didn’t hurt, I’m sure.

See the world?
I'll tell you how many of my generation saw the world when we were young,:Military Service,all on the taxpayers dime.I've lived in every section of the United States as well as Asia and Europe over twenty years.

I understand that option is still available.Any takers?

reply to Mountain Rose
I used to live in So. Cal - and I know exactly what you are saying. People that I am specifically talking about are Europeans (not Mexicans or Asians) - Italians, Germans, French (well, forget the French), Swedes, Danes, English, Irish, etc. I haven't see many of these people traveling around America.

catattack - when I say "Eurasians"
I am talking about a country that borders Russia and the Middle East, and has traits of both areas. They all speak Russian.

travel--both ways
I have a small business in Southern California, on the edge of the LA metro area, and I see customers from a lot of different origins--Mexican, but also
Salvadoreans, Costa Ricans; Romanians, Czechs, Germans, British, Cambodians, Vietnamese, Philipino, Nigerian, Ugandan, Middle Eastern, Pakistani, East Indian, pretty wide variety.
The year after I was out of college my dad and I went to Beirut on a Dutch freighter. Out of the 10 passengers, one was handsome and eligible, and we were married over 40 years. You never can tell...

See the world?
Great idea to see the world after high school, before going to college and then starting a career. It's a little too late for me, but I'm wondering, though, where does the typical young person get the financial wherewithall to pay for it? Are the parents expected to pony up for a year abroad in addition to college? Traveling, foreign country or good old USA, is expensive. It's a great idea, but unless the parent's are wealthy, it's not gonna happen.

People
Having never left the country, except to do circles under the ocean surface, I may not be qualified to comment. But here it is, anyway.

One thing that I have found is just to talk to people. Listen to people, really. I'm shy by nature, but I find it fascinating to strike up a conversation with people that appear to be very different from myself. I have managed to travel a little bit of the country, and went to school growing up in 4 different towns, in 2 different states. People are people. I went to a first week showing of “Malcolm X”, by myself, a little white boy. At the line to go in, I thought I was going to get beat up. I heard many comments directed at me, and got elbowed a few times. Leaving, people were shaking my hand.

People are people. Even some liberals.

NAm 65-66
Sure, it's available, if you don't mind dying in a war started out of sheer ego and arrogance by the ruling few.

Also, Prager paints the left with a pretty broad brush there. One kid in Australia is indicitive of the entire left? Not quite. Welcome back, ya loon.

John
It isn't necessarily wealthy parents ponying up for foreign travel. When I went, I worked two jobs for six months to pay for it. Started at six in the morning for a local supermarket in the warehouse, then did a shift in the local cinema starting as soon as the other one ended... probably the hardest I've worked in my life! Everyone else I know worked to save up for it; I don't know anyone who had parents to pay for it although I know a lot of people who have done it. But I think the reason you don't see many young Europeans travelling in America is twofold. Firstly it's too expensive. Secondly, and perhaps more importantly, until you're 21 you can't buy a beer!!

You can travel much of the world in USA
Although I look forward to traveling to other parts of the world, I have been to about half of the states in the US. I think many Euros don't understand how we don't have passports. Well, our country is pretty huge! And you don't need a passport to travel within the US. And you didn't need 1 for Canada or Mexico until recently.

I have just gotten mine for a trip to Cancun next week! Hooah to that! But I have been to Mexico before and to Montreal, Toronto and Quebec City. Plus the 25 states or so.

You can find many different cultures within the US in different regions and states. I always enjoy just visiting a place and talking with locals. Or being the local and talking with travelors. I recall talking with many cyclists from Europe as a teenager. They were just amazed at how much open space we have out west in Arizona. And that Arizona isn't just a huge pile of dirt but has huge mountains and forests.

Point being - you don't have to spend tons of money traveling abroad to explore different cultures and different people. Although there is nothing like visiting a place like Rocky Point, Mexico and seeing how real poor people live.

my 2 cents
Prager has a bit of a condescending air about him, as if he is deigning to share some of his wosdom with us. Sometimes this is funny, sometimes it is annoying sometimes I ignore it and sometimes I think that maybe it's just me. Prager is getting paid some serious bux to do that tour.

Whatever.

I spent 2 1/12 years in Turkey in the 60s while in the service and the one thing I still retain from that experience is the fact that I realize how lucky we are to live here and how much we take for granted. While in Turkey we referred to America as "The Big P.X.". I enjoyed it there and did some traveling around the country, Greece, Germany, etc. and of course the further into memory it recedes the better it gets and that's ok too.

Re: NAm 65-66

concord2123 writes:

[join the service and see the world: any takers?]

> Sure, it's available, if you don't mind dying in a war started
> out of sheer ego and arrogance by the ruling few.

Er, I suspect that more than a few of us here would disagree with
you on that score. You seem to have gotten lost; the Daily Kos is
the third door down on the [ahem] left.


> Also, Prager paints the left with a pretty broad brush there.
> One kid in Australia is indicitive of the entire left? Not
> quite.

You're reading with too literal an eye. The subtext is that the
kid in the column is just a representative example of a certain
type of person that Prager has seen numerous examples of.


-CB-


Bob Ney (R) Ohio gets 2 1/2 years......
Very good to see Bob Ney (R) Ohio get sentenced today.

HEY, he broke the "public trust" according to the judge-------WHOA......wait just a minute.

How about Sandy Berger stealing government "CLASSIFIED" documents from a Federal Government facility. Did he not break the public trust as a former high official within the government? I thought removing such documents was against the law. Hmmmmm...... Nothing from the press on this issue. Hmmmmm......Nothing from the Democrats on this issue. Hmmmmm..... a simple slap on the wrist from the courts.

WOW! Classified documents removed and methodically discarded. How many of us would have received such a slap for such behavior? See ya later Bob Ney. Hey, Sandy Berger, No Harm, No Foul. Oh yeah......Scooter Libby, let's see what fate awaits you. Boy oh boy, this is fascinating. Come to think of it, Harry Reid has not been made to account for his illegal/unethical reporting of over $1,000,000 in profits from his shady real estate deal.
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