Dear Erin,
Don’t stop giving them money! What you’re doing can be a great lesson for your children. But you definitely should stop calling it an allowance. In my mind, there’s a lot of victim mentality attached to that word. You’re not “allowing” anything, you’re rewarding success!
Kids should learn at an early age that money is connected to work. Even a kid who’s in kindergarten is old enough to begin doing some age-appropriate chores around the house.
We did this kind of thing in our home, with all of our kids, but we called it a commission. If they did their jobs, they got paid. If they didn’t, they didn’t get any money. It didn’t take long for them to make the connection!
- Dave