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Monday, March 12, 2007
Chuck Colson :: Townhall.com Columnist
The Real Solution: How to help our kids succeed
by Chuck Colson
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It’s an argument that has gone on almost as long as we have had public schools: What makes children succeed in school—and what makes them fail?

In a recent New York Times column, David Brooks offers a big part of the answer: If kids have a chaotic home life, he writes, it is much harder for them to succeed in school.

Brooks mentions programs in which mature women visit mothers under stress to offer “the sort of cajoling and practical wisdom that in other times would have been delivered by grandmothers or elders.” If we want better students, Brooks concludes, the government ought to fund more of these programs. The next president, he suggested, could win on such a platform.

I admire David Brooks, but he is dead wrong on this. He is addressing symptoms, not the sickness: The sickness is broken and unformed families.

Instead of relying on a government program to fix families after they break, wouldn’t it be better to keep families from breaking in the first place?

Wouldn’t it be better to find ways to encourage parents to marry before having children, instead of telling them—as our cultural elites often do—that marriage does not matter?

Second, when it comes to families, government itself is often the problem, promoting policies destructive to families. For example, courts that force states to accept same-sex “marriage” are redefining true marriage out of existence. That’s not good for kids.

And many studies have shown that kids do best in married, two-parent families. Yet some states now force adoption agencies to send kids into the homes of homosexual couples. Continued...

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Chuck Colson was the Chief Counsel for Richard Nixon and served time in prison for Watergate-related charges. In 1976, Colson founded Prison Fellowship Ministries, which, in collaboration with churches of all confessions and denominations, has become the world's largest outreach to prisoners, ex-prisoners, crime victims, and their families.
 
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Easy Fix For Much Fatherlessness
Easy Fix For Much Fatherlessness:

Establish BASIC family rights on all levels of government.

Establish EQUAL rights for all fit parents, divorced or unmarried.

Guarantee due process in family court.

Prosecute parents who file false allegations.

Prosecute parents who interfere with the other parent's relationship with the child.

How do I know? Read this:

http://teristoddard.mensnewsdaily.com/2007/02/26/cant-find-a-husband/


NCDAD
I'm sorry for what our government has to done to you and your children.

My kids got lucky as the US Family Courts denied my children their Dad, but after a couple of years, my ex realized that she could get my money and my help with parenting. While I wasn't allowed to share parenting by the US Family Courts, once I agreed to pay my ex a weekly paycheck, then shared parenting didn't seem to matter to anyone.

Because my children got lucky and I manage to pay for their Mom's parenting and for my own parenting, teachers have told me that they would never be able to tell that my kids are from a broken home. Apparently, as you've experienced, children from broken homes are usually easy to spot. I can only imagine how badly my children would have suffered if the court had gotten its way and I was pushed to the sidelines throughout their childhood.

Mr. Colson and other conservatives can write all day about the breakdown of family, but until conservatives fight to change the family court system, breaking up the family will continue to be an attractive option for Mothers who perceive their lives in need of improvement.

Children deserve and require shared parenting presumption in each state in this country. Until that day, those lamenting the destruction of families, while doing nothing to tear down the current system, are simply deluding themselves and have their heads buried firmly up their arses.
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