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Friday, April 04, 2008
Albert Mohler :: Townhall.com Columnist
Is There A War Against Fathers In America?
by Albert Mohler
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The issue today has really become child custody: by shifting the battle into the area of children they turned children into political weapons. Because what happens is not only can one spouse unilaterally divorce the other, but she—and it is usually the mother—can take the children with her (or sometimes the father does it to the mother), but in most cases the mother can divorce the father, and without any grounds, take the children. She doesn’t have to give any reason. After that point the father’s contact with the children when it is not authorized by the government becomes a crime. He can be arrested for trying to see his own children without having done anything legally wrong. And this is what’s shocking: they just turned children into political weapons and political tools.

Mohler: I’ve been concerned for years about what I’ve called the divorce industrial complex. You really do a great job in your book in demonstrating how there is an entire pernicious economy based upon and encouraging and facilitating divorce.

Baskerville: It’s huge, that’s right. And what’s most important about it is this huge machine is government based. It’s not just private entrepreneurs in this case, it is government officials. It’s lawyers, it’s judges and it’s the huge social services bureaucracies … it’s a huge entourage that is not only profiting from divorce, but increasing government power over private lives in very dangerous ways.

Mohler: Professor Baskerville … you were talking about the fathers as victims of this and I think in that context that’s clearly the right way to talk about this. But ultimately, children are the victims of all of this.

Baskerville: Well, that’s exactly right. This is the main cause behind the epidemic of fatherless children—that 24 million fatherless children in this country are not that way because the fathers have abandoned their children, contrary to government and other propaganda. Overwhelmingly, it is because fathers are forcibly kept away from their children. Fathers who have done nothing wrong are forcibly separated from their children. We know that fatherlessness is the single greatest predictor of social and personal deviance among children, alcohol and substance abuse, crime and low educational attainment and yet we are told that fathers are abandoning their children. This is not true.

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In addition to being one of Salem’s nationally syndicated radio talk show hosts, R. Albert Mohler, Jr. is the president of The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville.
puppychen
You're a liar: examples of heterosexual or nuclear families are NOT what gay people say OPRESSES them!
Gays and lesbians have NOTHING against a man and woman being married and having children as they choose! Gays and lesbians have their OWN parents and siblings as examples.

Gays and lesbians have outright said that the LAWS that exclude THEM from marrying another gay person of their choice who is gay, and raising a child obviously in need of a home is what is oppressive.
Gays and lesbians are called (even by attrition) into service for needy children even in their own extended families.
Some have to tend to their aging parents or siblings in need of help.
A MARRIED gay person has far more ability to support not only each other but extended family.
Gays and lesbians have inescapable responsibilities helped by marriage.
As most people do.
These are conservative values: self reliance.
What gay folks want is INCLUSION, and by the SAME standards as established for heterosexuals.
Gay folks know when they are treated to completely hypocritical and contradictory standards and are right to say so when this happens.
And not even in court has anyone proven adverse affects on marriage or married people.
Conjecture, and saying it does over and over again, is only saying it, it's not proof.


puppychen
You're making generalities and the nuclear family isn't under ATTACK, so much as it's been dissolved by unrealistic and unresolved issues that people won't talk about or refuse to acknowledge.
Namely, that men aren't to be assumed that they'd be GOOD fathers simply because they are heterosexual or fertile and fecund.
You love believing the criticism of how gay people don't establish relationships in the long term.
But you haven't brought up a very important fact: does society at large HELP gay couples to do so? Do gay young people get the same support and can they HOPE for marriage with another gay person?
The answer to that is no. So if a group of people hasn't had the same support and been enabled, passing judgement as if INCAPABLE isn't the proper response to a non existent situation.
However, that gay couples DO take marriage seriously enough to no only fight for it in court, but to establish parenthood and spousal care WITHOUT the legal option, says that our society is under utilizing a very committed population.
You can't vilify a population you haven't helped or indeed, supported complicated laws to make establishing stronger relationships possible and better.
If you don't think it's what gay people want, or you think you haven't been given enough evidence to believe otherwise:
How much evidence have you needed to believe marriage is what straight people want?
50% failure rate isn't making you go out and vote for laws against marriage for STRAIGHT people now is it?

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