Thursday, September 11, 2008
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Guest Blog by Diane Medved: McCain-Palin and the Gender Gap
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Posted by:
Michael Medved at
4:01 AM
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 Guest blog by Dr. Diane Medved ( www.brightlightsearch.blogspot.com)
Well, even as Sarah Palin is accused of being too feminine (high heels, nice clothes, red lipstick) and too masculine (won't stay home with her baby), the New York Times prints yet another article--in its Science section--announcing surprising findings about gender differences.
A subject to which I'm attuned, as I'm writing (admittedly with great procrastination) a book with the message that those differences are the crux of marriage.
The Times reports on a massive cross-cultural study that sought to tease out whether undeniable and often-replicated sex differences will disappear once women are liberated from traditional roles. The results must be giving feminists apoplexy, as it found that the character trait gap widens with greater lifestyle freedom. As NYT writer John Tierney puts it, "The more Venus and Mars have equal rights and similar jobs, the more their personalities seem to diverge."
He goes into a silly attempt to explain these persistent differences with the work of Bradley University psychologist David P. Schmitt, who says that stresses of agrarian societies cause men "to adapt their personalities to rules, hierarchies and gender roles more constraining than those in modern Western countries--or in clans of hunter-gatherers."
I love the next part: Schmitt apparently blames "monotheism, agriculturally based economies and the monopolization of power and resources by a few men" for distorting the "natural" divergent tendencies of the genders, and now, with glorious liberation afoot, each of us can go happily back to our respective planets. Fulfilling John Lennon's fantasy: Imagine no religion. It's a "stressor" that artificially got guys acting more like gals.
Pretty funny. But anyone's allowed to guess at explanations. The important point is that even university scientists are conceding that the "natural" tendencies of each gender are very, very different.
How does this apply to Sarah Palin? From my perspective, it allows her to enter into a "marriage" of sorts with John McCain that can bring the best of both planets together. Surely lots of Democrats agree with that, as one of the benefits of Hillary's candidacy they touted was that as a woman she'd add something new and different to the office.
But if the scientists are to be believed, the "natural" tendencies of the genders are better served with a woman as Vice President rather than POTUS. A man as VP, with his often-proven need to be competitive, might have a tough time being second-fiddle (just imagine Bill Clinton as "first guy"!). Sarah Palin seems to have little problem sharing the spotlight with Todd and her family, or introducing John McCain. It also might be that women's natural nurturing and social bridge-building inclinations helped her make major changes in Alaska's ethical and political structure and remain well-loved--skills she'd likely bring to diplomacy and negotiation across parties and with foreign nations once elected to national office.
There's always the issue that Palin boosters (and Hillary fans) want it both ways--they want a strong woman who can hold her own with men, and yet one who will let her natural feminine proclivities show through. In other words--do we want a leader indistinguishable from a man (in this competitive man's world) or a woman? Hillary, in her pantsuits with her strident demeanor, seemed to cleave to the first model; Sarah Palin, I think, exemplifies the second. Comfortable in her skin; putting herself out there as who she is, pregnant daughter and evangelical faith and all, she seems to soften the GOP ticket in a welcome way. Will I support her in eight years when she runs for POTUS? I hope I get to make that evaluation. But in the interim, just observe how many heads have turned to admire, as an attractive woman walks into view.
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Looking back to that horrible day, seven years ago:
We must also engage, however, in the more difficult task of understanding the sources of such madness. The essence of this tragedy, it seems to me, derives from a fundamental absence of empathy on the part of the attackers: an inability to imagine, or connect with, the humanity and suffering of others. Such a failure of empathy, such numbness to the pain of a child or the desperation of a parent, is not innate; nor, history tells us, is it unique to a particular culture, religion, or ethnicity. It may find expression in a particular brand of violence, and may be channeled by particular demagogues or fanatics. Most often, though, it grows out of a climate of poverty and ignorance, helplessness and despair.
–Barack Obama, Hyde Park Herald,/i> Sept. 19, 2001.
“This is obviously an act of war that has been committed on the United States”
– John McCain, September 12, 2001
http://proteinwisdom.com/?p=13247
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...that libs have with Sarah is that for too long they have confused strong with obnoxious. When faced with a strong woman, the catty claws came out before their first meow was finished. |
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have sold a false bill of goods to women and men. Women do not need to become men to beat them. We are quite capable of doing it as a woman, and all the better for it.
As to marriage, it always has been, and always will be teamwork that makes it successful. Even as life has changed, via work roles, whether the pioneer women on the prairie, or the city dwellers, it still was teamwork that made life successful.
Another false bill of goods sold by feminists is telling women to take charge of sex. Women have always been in charge of sex and only cold and alone feminists never knew it. |
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Andrew Sullivan said this yesterday:
"On core moral issues, where this man knew what the right thing was, and had to pick between good and evil, he chose evil. When he knew that George W. Bush's war in Iraq was a fiasco and catastrophe, and before Donald Rumsfeld quit, McCain endorsed George W. Bush against his fellow Vietnam vet, John Kerry in 2004. By that decision, McCain lost any credibility that he can ever put country first. He put party first and his own career first ahead of what he knew was best for the country."
http://andrewsullivan.theatlantic.com/the_daily_dish/2008/0 9/mccains-integri.html
Think about that.
Everyone who chose Bush over Kerry in 2004 is evil.
Andrew Sullivan is mad. Litterally. This is Palin Derangement Syndrome (actually "Fear of Obama Losing" Syndrome) out of control. |
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Many years ago I read where someone wrote: "It is not good for the man to continue by himself. I am going to make a helper for him, as a compliment of him".
Thank goodness that some scientists have helped me to finally understand that men and women have unique qualities that compliment and help one another in relationships. If I just continue to cling to that silly old monotheism I'll never learn nothin'! |
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Women and men bring different gifts to the table. It's undeniable. Our problem is only that we tend to see one set of gifts as more valuable than the other. Funny thing is, God intended the gifts to work together to create something greater.
Wonderful perspective! I'll definitely enjoy reading your book. |
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I totally agree with you...the natural differences between the sexes is the crux of a good marriage. Ya think God knew what He was doing? Or the big bang just happened to produce such a miracle, as miracle it is? ;-> As you can tell, I am eagerly awaiting your book. And if you don't hurry up, I may beat you to it! ;->
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Interesting conclusion. I like the analogy, do we want a woman who is more like a man than a woman? I prefer the latter as well. Women think of things that we men don't. Their value system isn't always the same either. The White House could use "a woman's touch".
To take it a step further, if elected, Sarah has a real chance of helping McCain recreate the Republican Party. It is time. We need Ronald Reagan passion again, but it needs to come from the new young generation. The new generation doesn't relate to politics of old. For better or worse, we need something new. Hopefully better.
Then again, Obama tried something new. Well, he started out trying, but eventually caved in to the old style politics. What a shame. He had a real chance, and blew it. His "more of the same" label applies to him too.
Here's hoping that Sarah doesn't fall victim to being changed by Washington, instead of the other way around.
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